Discrimination at a strip club (1969 hits)
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Submitted by Velouria (View user info) at 2004-02-06 14:26:41 EST
In my lifetime, the only discrimination I could relate to was age discrimination. Every individual endures the woes of curfew, not being old enough to drink, drive, etc. You just chalk that up to growing pains. As a child even my sex didn't stop me. I am the youngest of three girls. My father raised each of his girls to be tough. I was basically a tom-boy growing up. When I wanted to play t-ball and there wasn't a t-ball team, my dad signed me up for the boy's t-ball team. I was the only girl on the team. I played in boy's little league until I was 8 when the city managed to secure a team for girls. I lived a happy life practically discrimination free until recently.
Every once in a while my boyfriend and I, with a group of our friends go, out together. On of our favorite spots to go to is a place called Michaels. Michaels is a gentleman's club. Every Thursday night is amateur night. Any girl brave enough to go topless, or bottomless, on stage has a change to win $500. (No I didn't compete, I know someone would later ask if I didn't verify.) On amateur night this club becomes packed. They remove a lot of the seating they would normally have within the club to be able to hold the large capacity of people coming to see the show. One of our friends, I'll call him Slim, has a VIP pass. Thanks to Slim, we got a nice VIP booth without having to fight over bar, floor, or table space.
We all sat down and enjoyed the show. Over a good period of time we all became quite intoxicated. When my boyfriend is intoxicated, he gets brilliant ideas. Tonight, he was going to treat me. Tonight he wanted to buy me my first lap dance. We're all drunk, and it seemed funny at the time. Anyway, if I'd refused, he would have done anything he could to make it more painful or embarrassing. My boyfriend soon called over a dancer and told her, "I'll pay you $50 if to give a quick lap dance to my girlfriend." Without giving the offer much thought the dancer replied, "I'm sorry. I don't do girls. Management prohibits the dancers from dancing on other chicks, only men." This only made all of the people sitting in our booth hostile. We all agreed that the men would enjoy seeing a little woman and woman action. But our cries fell upon deaf and nekkid ears. Feeling defeated, we dropped the argument and enjoyed the rest of our night.
A couple weeks went by and the same crew decided to travel over to Michaels again on amateur night for a few laughs. That's when we saw it. Upon entering the club, we saw a female dancer giving a lap dance to a female customer. We were outraged. The guys at our booth quickly found someone from management to hear their complaint. The manager denied having any rules against taking payment for dances for women on women. The only rule they did have concerning women is that a women must be escorted inside by a male. Fair enough. The manager apologized to us regarding the problem and offered to buy our next round of drinks. (Bad idea!) I don't think the dancer who refused to dance with me lost her job, but she did look like she was getting a good chewing out once the manager caught up to her.
The victory was short lived because then I had to wonder why this dancer wouldn't want to dance with me. If dancing with other women wasn't prohibited, then what was wrong with me to where I wasn't lap dance worthy? Am I not pretty enough? Did my breath stink? Did I have broccoli in my teeth? The questions soared. About 30 minutes after our discussion with the manager, another dancer approached our table and offered a bit of explanation.
The new dancer explained the original dancer is a lesbian. The night when my boyfriend offered to buy me a lap dance, the dancer's girlfriend, a butch chick, was in the club. Butch chick is known for coming into the club and spying on her girl. Since the dancer has no interest in men, butch chick never gets hostile about the men flirting and paying around with her. But when it comes to other women, butch chick is very possessive. I guess instead of causing conflict with butch chick, the dancer lied to us in order to avoid conflict at home. Until that point I had no idea butch chick was actually "butchy". I started glancing around the room, and noticed the dancer who denied me. It wasn't long thereafter I saw another manly-ish woman watching the dancer's every move. I slightly recall seeing butch chick the time before we came before, and didn't give the incident another thought.
The night was winding down. We're all pretty intoxicated, and also all have to work the next day. We cut the night short about 1:00, paid our tab, and moved towards the exit. My boyfriend never misses an opportunity to do something or catch some at the most imperfect prefect time to say or do the worse possible thing. We walk right past the dancer, who is now engaged in conversation with butch chick at the bar. My boyfriend grabs the dancer on the ass and says, "My girlfriend wanted me to give this to you." The dancer was so shocked by the occurrence she just froze. Butch chick's face distorted in a demonic type of way as she stormed into the ladies room. Luckily the dancer didn't scream at my boyfriend for touching her with the amount of ready bouncers in this place. Also, luckily butch chick didn't try bouncing on me.
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Submitted by someone (user info) at 2004-02-06 20:31:30 EST (#)
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Submitted by hidden101 (user info) at 2004-02-06 19:33:43 (#)
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i'd like to buy a vowel, Pat.
i don't know what world you live in, but if my girlfriend told me she wanted to fuck another girl while i watched, i'd tell her sick, perverted ass to get the fuck out of my house and never talk to me again. some women try too hard to be sexy and end up looking like pathetic trash. a slut thinking i'll get turned on by seeing her kiss another girl is one of those big mistakes.
i'm with Q-Man. fuck you.
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I hate to say it hidden, but i disagree with you.
Hey, if its not your thing, then its not your thing.
Also, i see what you mean, it could come off as trashy, i guess it all depends on the girl.
Submitted by hidden101 (user info) at 2004-02-06 19:36:01 EST (#)
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haha, i just said "fuck you" to someone named "fuck you."
Submitted by hidden101 (user info) at 2004-02-06 19:33:43 EST (#)
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i'd like to buy a vowel, Pat.
i don't know what world you live in, but if my girlfriend told me she wanted to fuck another girl while i watched, i'd tell her sick, perverted ass to get the fuck out of my house and never talk to me again. some women try too hard to be sexy and end up looking like pathetic trash. a slut thinking i'll get turned on by seeing her kiss another girl is one of those big mistakes.
i'm with Q-Man. fuck you.
Submitted by Quartermain (user info) at 2004-02-06 19:18:28 EST (#)
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**ok, quarterbrain.**
Oh no, an insulting misspelling of my screen name. Guess I'll have to run away in tears, now.
**you are obviously an expert on women and strip clubs.**
I never claimed to be an expert on women. Any man who does is either a liar or an idiot. I try not to be the first and I'm obviously not the second. As for strip clubs, I have been in my share and know how things tend to work, is all.
**i should have known not to argue with you.**
A lesson smarter people than you have had to learn, so I hold not that against you.
**we'll see how you like to be fondled and touched and valued for your cunt.**
The first two sound good, unless you're a big fat chick. The third is a wee bit problematic.
Tell you what, darlin', how about you take the money you get for giving hand-jobs behind Wal-Mart and go and buy yourself some capital letters for your next paragraph, hmmm?
Submitted by FuckYou (user info) at 2004-02-06 16:31:47 EST (#)
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ok, quarterbrain. you are obviously an expert on women and strip clubs. i should have known not to argue with you. you need to get slapped upside the head with my big black latex dildo. we'll see how you like to be fondled and touched and valued for your cunt. you wouldnt last with a rubber dick in your ass for ten seconds.
Submitted by Quartermain (user info) at 2004-02-06 16:17:33 EST (#)
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**no, ass. you support pornos by renting them.**
It's called an analogy. I'm drawing attention to the mind-numbing idiocy of your logical fallacy by comparing it to one of my own.
**do you have any idea what goes on in strip clubs? behind the scenes?**
Actually, I do. I've had good friends who are strippers, good friends who are bartenders and/or bouncers at strip clubs, and even filled in for a few...the bartenders that is, not the strippers. I've even known women who owned and operated strip clubs. I'll not deny that there are some skanky strip clubs and some perverse owners, but to continue your lesson in logical thought(this is the part where you want to pay close attention, darlin')just because 'White Castle' is a restaurant, it does not follow that all restaurants are 'White Castle.'
**you wouldnt have the first clue anyway.**
And you base this statement on what knowledge, exactly?
Submitted by Velouria (user info) at 2004-02-06 16:01:51 EST (#)
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We're engaged. Big wedding to come.
Submitted by FuckYou (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:59:46 EST (#)
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no, ass. you support pornos by renting them. do you have any idea what goes on in strip clubs? behind the scenes? because that is what you support by going to them. these little 18 and 19 year old girls get jobs there because it is easy money, only to learn that it comes with a lot of bullshit. you wouldnt have the first clue anyway.
here is +1 for you honey, because you have such a special relationship. i bet sex with you is sacred. why dont you marry this guy???
Submitted by Quartermain (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:51:31 EST (#)
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**strippers are fucked in the head, and anyway you are contributing to the objectification of women by going there.**
Way to make a huge generalisation and yet add nothing of value. Not all strippers have mental problems. Some of them, its just a job, like waitressing, except with bigger tits, er..tips.
**you support shit like rape and drugs and molestation by going there.**
Now thats just stupid. First of all, you don't need to support things like drugs. They support themselves. Nobody ever sits around saying 'Man, how am I ever going to get rid of all this crack?' Secondly, its a logical fallacy. Its like saying you support porno films by going to the movies.
Submitted by Velouria (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:46:50 EST (#)
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Fuck you:
You owe me ice cream. My boyfriend and I have talked extensively about cheating asnd sex. Even fucking a chick would be considered CHEATING to him. Would he want me to fuck a chick with him watching? The answer is no. He freaked on my friend for being involed with her boyfriend in a threesome. It's not something he'd want to do with me. He thinks sex with me is sacred. He'd never share me with anyone of the same or opposite sex. We've devoted a life to one another. Not a life to me and him with another chick. And the rape and all that other bullshit. The women objectify themselves. And get paid good for it. And the rest of your arguement, you're too much of a feminist and man hater. I think you probably have penis envy.
Submitted by FuckYou (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:33:36 EST (#)
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Listen honey, i'm not mean or bitter. i just call bullshit. strippers are fucked in the head, and anyway you are contributing to the objectification of women by going there. women are compared to bimbos like that, because men want big tits and skinny asses. and you and your other early twenties friends dont yet understand that you support shit like rape and drugs and molestation by going there. i dont doubt that you are a fine girl, but you should look hard at yourself and your boyfriend. me saying he wants to see you fuck another girl is not mean. here is a simple test. just ask him. no story up front, just say, "honey, what would you think if i were to fuck another girl?" and just watch the stain spread on the front of his dockers. if i am wrong, i'll buy you an ice cream.
Submitted by hidden101 (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:30:08 EST (#)
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hahahaha
good times...
i remember the strip club i used to frequent when i was a lonely guy in tech school. i had my own VIP seat, and all the girls would come give me a hug when they saw me come in. they loved me because i treated them like people, and not pieces of meat. although i enjoy naked women, i didn't really go for that. i just had a damn good time going there and joking around with all the girls. i loved making them laugh while they were trying to be in the serious, sexy mode up on stage. good times....
Submitted by Velouria (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:24:59 EST (#)
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Thanks Really Bored. But I learned a long time ago that engaging with idiots of such isn't worth it. Now in real life you can knock the fuck out of someone so dense. But with pixels, it's not worth the time and effort. Whatever makes them so mean and bitter is beyond me. I'm not a great writer. And I would have happily taken a -2 without the bullshit comments attached. Fuck You is the ideal partner for Random Joe. I wish they'd find one another, live happily ever after, and put Uber out of their minds. That would be the perfect happy ending.
Submitted by FuckYou (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:21:30 EST (#)
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Ha ha you fuck. you are a guy, and you want to see any two girls fuck, and if you don't your a fag or a liar or both. you are so chivalrous standing up for that girl. and i know it helps you to call me a dyke, when you have no idea. you know as well as i do that her boyfriend wants to see her fuck that girl. what do you think he would be thinking while his girlfriend gets a lapdance? he'll get to jack off to that memory all week. you are a weak excuse, lying when you know he wants her to fuck other girls. honey, that is his #1 wish, guaran fuckin tee you.
Submitted by reallybored (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:16:46 EST (#)
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Not that she Vel needs help, but i cant resist this shit:
"You think you are so enlightened having a girl dance for you. "
What the fuck are you babbling about? How does that make on enlightened? Reading a book, studying some history, chilling with Buddha under that crazy tree makes you enlightened. Getting a lapdance at best makes you horney.
"You think you are cool and not afraid to show your boyfriend that you are not afraid of the little bit of "girl on girl" action as you call it. Fuck you."
Actually she was being cool. She could have looked like a fucking icy bitch by saying no way, but instead she was a cool chick who went with the flow once.
"Your boyfriend wants to see you fuck another girl."
Where did you pull that from? Seeing your girl get a lapdance from another girl is much different than seeing her bang that girl.
I was gonna keep going on, but it gets repetive how fucking dense you are. Your a fucking stupid cunt bitch who hates men and is probably en route to being some crazy ass bull dyke. Do everyone a favor and use a spork to remove your uterus. We dont want little yous running around.
Submitted by Velouria (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:13:23 EST (#)
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well, yes, you are now. Still, I've been trying to view your comments on other posts, and don't see them. You're singling me out for some odd reason. Maybe that was your girlfriend my boyfriend grabbed. I dunno. I'm tired of engaging in conversation with you. So end of story.
Submitted by FuckYou (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:09:45 EST (#)
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well i am logged in so i dont know what the fuck you are talking about.
Submitted by Velouria (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:05:23 EST (#)
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Oddly, you can read a whole story, and not notice tabs in the upper right corner regarding accounts. Classic.
Submitted by FuckYou (user info) at 2004-02-06 15:02:23 EST (#)
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Well I just found this site today, so maybe you could enlighten me on how to post my comments with an account, because I would be happy to do it. Unless you are going to do it in another blah blah blah little gay story. You post your bullshit for people who don't give a shit about you, so why can't I post what I think of it?
Submitted by Velouria (user info) at 2004-02-06 14:55:12 EST (#)
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Fuck you: It's quite easy to dispense opinions anywhere. Unfortunately it's a bit more challenging to give opinions to people who give a shit about what you think. Which I don't. Sadly, you even have to post your comment without using an account.
Submitted by lucid (user info) at 2004-02-06 14:49:57 EST (#)
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I wonder if the Butch lesbian posts on this site under the handle "FuckYou"
Submitted by FuckYou (user info) at 2004-02-06 14:48:22 EST (#)
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You think you are so enlightened having a girl dance for you. You think you are cool and not afraid to show your boyfriend that you are not afraid of the little bit of "girl on girl" action as you call it. Fuck you.
Your boyfriend wants to see you fuck another girl. If you do it, you're a whore. If you don't, you are a fucking candy ass poser with no sense of adventure. It sucks to be a girl because men only look at you thinking what you would look like with their cock in your mouth, and boyfriends will always jerk off thinking about what you would look like with a cunt in your face. Your boyfriend is a fucking pussy too.
Submitted by xLisaCatx (user info) at 2004-02-06 14:46:19 EST (#)
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Strip clubs are usually a bad place for a lonely lesbian, I prefer a nearby Irish pub. I'm still nursing my hangover from last night.
Submitted by William_Q_Percy (user info) at 2004-02-06 14:44:16 EST (#)
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Cause you're hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To trot!
Submitted by reallybored (user info) at 2004-02-06 14:37:53 EST (#)
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This reminds me of the time the butch dyke bartender wouldnt serve me drinks at the lesbian bar. Damn me and my infernal penis!
Submitted by XenoWolf (user info) at 2004-02-06 14:35:32 EST (#)
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It's always great to see the ladies in attendance. I once went to a strip club with my best friend (a chick), and 2 of her bisexual friends (equally chicks). That was a crazy night indeed...
Submitted by Jason QPublic at 2004-02-06 14:33:25 EST (#)
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LMAO your bf is a madman ms velsie!