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Submitted by reallybored (View user info) at 2004-08-05 10:36:17 EDT
Rape has recently been a hot topic here at old Uber. A lot of people have said a lot of things on the subject, some good and some just retarded. I figured I would add my two cents as well since I kind of have some experience with it. Why you ask? Because I was once accused of rape.
During freshman year of college there was this girl who lived on the floor below me in my dorm. Being that almost everyone in my dorm hung out together we ended up seeing each other a lot. She also happened to be friends with some of the brothers in the fraternity I was going to pledge and therefore we would both be at the same parties.
Due to the above reasons there were many times when we would both come home to the dorm at the same time. One of these times I went with her back to her room and we had sex; normal casual consensual drunk sex.
This act repeated itself pretty regularly for the next few weeks. Basically we were each others last resort fuck. We would both go out to a party and if we both didn't bring home somebody else, we would end up with each other. There was nothing weird in this as many other people in my dorm had similar relationships.
Now for a long time I tried to keep this a secret. This was because she was not the most attractive girl in the universe and she kind of had a reputation for being a whore. However this didn't last long as she openly volunteered this information to other people. A stronger man would have immediately shut the whole operation down right there, but I was 18 and full of piss and cum and it continued, with everyone's knowledge of course.
Everything was fine and normal until my buddy from back home came down to visit. For those that don't know its kind of an unspoken rule that when your friend from home comes to visit you at college your job is to try and get them laid. Not wanting to disappoint I did my best to help my friend out and introduced him to every slut, whore, and freshman chick I could find.
Unfortunately the girls I produced were not willing that night and we both figured nothing was going to happen. That was until she came to the party. They both hit it off very well and spent the rest of the night bullshitting about this and that. It was quite obvious to even the most unknowing person that these two were going to go at it. So doing as any good friend would, I allowed them to use my room. Not my bed of course, but my roommate's who that weekend wasn't there.
They went in and I went next door to a buddy's room to pass the time. About 20 minutes later or so my friend came out with a huge grin on his face. He proceeded to tell me all the ins and outs (no pun intended) of what happened and gave me a big thanks for the hookup. Then he said something I didn't see coming, "She wants you to come in man."
As I walked into my room I saw her getup from my roommate's bed and move over to mind. When she saw me she smiled, and waved for me to come over. I don't think anymore explicit details are necessary besides the fact that yes we did have sex.
Now I'm not proud that I had sex with a girl right after my friend did. It's not something I plan on telling my grandkids. But it did happen. I blame it on being young, and dumb, and horney. At the time that it happened I was slightly buzzed but nowhere near drunk, and I don't believe she was drunk at the time either. The sex was the same as it always was.
The next morning I woke up to a loud knocking at my door. When I opened it I was greeted by the girl's RA, Samantha [name changed]. Samantha told me that a girl came up to her this morning and told her that I had raped her last night. Some people in this situation might have thought she was joking, but the expression on her face clearly indicted otherwise. It was at this moment I felt my world fall out from under me.
Unless you have been in this situation you cannot possibly fathom what it is like to be accused of something, a terrible something, that you know you did not do. You have to understand that this was a new place for me, I had just started freshman year of college, I had just met a whole bunch of new people? This people were my friends, but we didn't have the years of history to have a certain level of trust. Why should my friends believe me over this girl, especially considering many of them were friends with her too?
That night the girl came to my dorm room. She told me that she had never said I raped her, that it was all a misunderstanding, and that if I had she would have gotten so and so to kick my ass blah blah blah. I felt relieved, everything was over, it's was all just a bad dream.
The following I was walking around happy as a clam. My first class of the day had been cancelled, I only had one other easy one for the day, and the whole weekend issue was dealt with. That was until I bumped into a girl from my dorm, Jen [name changed]. Jen told me that she heard what happened and didn't believe it. I was stunned. As I asked her questions, things began to change. Apparently the girl told all the other girls on the floor that I did in fact indeed rape her after she willing slept with my friend. She supposedly told me to stop multiple times, but I didn't.
I couldn't fucking believe it. The girl had told me yesterday that it was BS, but later that night told everyone else it wasn't. I was in shock. I decided right then to go to her room after class and find out what the hell was going on.
When I arrived at her room, she was there all chipper and happy. I asked all the questions and she gave me a song and dance. How she never told the RA or anybody else that I raped her, how it was all BS. She specifically said that if I had raped her, things would have happened to me. She would have gone to the cops etc. I left her room even more confused.
A day later I got another knock on the door from the RA. She had with her a piece of paper that stated that she (Samantha) had heard the complaint, took notes on it, and saved it as record. I read the paperwork. It told of the whole thing. It had very explicit details of what did happen (truth) and what supposedly happened (false). To make things worse at the bottom was the girl's signature. Samantha then told me I had to sign it to show that I was aware of this situation. Not wanting to implicate myself I wrote down that I deny any allegations against myself and that at not time do I do anything illegal or wrong, then I signed.
For the next few days life was strange. Everyone in my dorm knew and it was very weird. Some girls who I didn't know looked at me in way I can't even describe. I could almost feel there eyes on my back. Other girls came up to me and told me that believed I didn't do anything and they were on my side, I'm very grateful for them.
When the weekend came I went to the fraternity house to hang out with the brothers as always. The girl never came, she went to some other fraternity's fall dance. I tried to not think of what happened, and just let things go.
Monday came, as it tends to do, and I found myself at one of the fraternity brothers houses hanging out just watching some TV. His roommate came in and started to tell of some of the stories that happened that past weekend. The roommate was a member of the fraternity that had the dance. I was really paying much attention until the roommate mentioned the girl's name.
This girl, the one who was supposedly raped last weekend, the one who should be all fucked up in the head it if did truly happen, decided it would be a great idea to fuck the DJ at the party in the back room, while everybody listened. She fucked the kid for like an hour while everybody was in the room next door laughing their asses off. This fucking whore who lied through he teeth to try to implicate me with something I didn't do, now has the fucking balls to go and bang some kid the NEXT FUCKING WEEKEND.
I was furious to say the least. I didn't know what to do. I thought maybe the RA could help, so I went to her later that night. As she opened the door to her apartment I could sense a change. Before I could even speak she said, "I know". And then she just smiled. That was the really the beginning of the end of all this for me. Slowly the people in my dorm that hated me came to learn what happened, and as more things happened (which they did), they didn't glare as hard.
Aftermath:
Nothing ever came up from the school during the rest of my time there. Samantha never brought it up again, and I guess it wont every be an issue, unless I run for office or something. That girl never said anything to me for the rest of the semester. The following semester everybody was pledging and nobody really saw anybody. She kind of went into obscurity until one night at the bar. She was really trashed and started talking shit on me to a couple of her new sisters. What she didn't realize was that she was saying this right in front of a group of girls who were in my fraternity's sister sorority. Needless to say, one of my girls punched her. It was the coolest thing anybody has ever done for me.
Well that's my story. It's the truth.
User Reviews
Submitted by podium (user info) at 2005-03-22 17:04:56 EST (#)
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No Comment
Submitted by Scarlett13 (user info) at 2004-11-08 08:10:57 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
Good post - women need to learn that nobody respects a liar, and all it does is make people doubt the women it does actually happen to you.
You are lucky that people stood by, I have seen it go the other way - it's not pretty
Submitted by jimbo (user info) at 2004-08-11 09:31:36 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
More and more, I hear about this type of bullshit happening on campus. It makes me want to put my fist through a wall.
I'm glad things worked out well for you.
Submitted by Freight_Train (user info) at 2004-08-08 20:23:02 EDT (#)
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you story has no point fag
fucking frat boys
Submitted by Smithstudd (user info) at 2004-08-08 20:04:17 EDT (#)
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Great job
Submitted by SPECIALk (user info) at 2004-08-08 02:49:30 EDT (#)
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That's what you get for sleeping with whackos
Submitted by coley (user info) at 2004-08-08 02:30:02 EDT (#)
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This was a good post, but I'm mainly popping my head in here to point out the strangeness that this post is about rape and your last one was "WWYRSW: Legal or Illegal?"
Irony!!
Submitted by Kaelic (user info) at 2004-08-07 00:57:10 EDT (#)
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Excellent RB story.
Submitted by Commie_bastard (user info) at 2004-08-07 00:47:08 EDT (#)
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WE AT THE UCP ARE INCORPORATING ASPTN WITH OUR ORGINIZATION!
and this post was really well written
Submitted by disAbled (user info) at 2004-08-06 19:51:06 EDT (#)
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This is why I avoid the subject of rape. Don't get me wrong; I'm not apathetic about it. If someone raped my sister I would kill them. Literally. Wouldn't hesitate. Hang the consequences. But rape has become such a weapon in the modern world. I'm tired of hearing people cry about it and how it is impossible to heal. You can heal from anything. Rape victims don't deserve sympathy. No one does. Sympathy is a waste of life. Learn to move on or shoot yourself in the cerebellum. Everyone has their own tragedies, so don't try to load them up with yours.
Submitted by ohlookasquirrel (user info) at 2004-08-06 19:29:51 EDT (#)
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Hey, you, whatever this ASPTN stuff is, if it has to do with hating shit post thursday, I want in.
How do I get in?
Submitted by MickGinny (user info) at 2004-08-06 14:00:17 EDT (#)
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"Then she got arrested for filing a false police report. Then we all laughed."
AHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Submitted by triple_optics (user info) at 2004-08-06 11:23:53 EDT (#)
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Good shit gomez
Submitted by wardy (user info) at 2004-08-06 11:18:51 EDT (#)
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No Comment
Submitted by 1Point21Gigawatts (user info) at 2004-08-06 11:08:47 EDT (#)
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Submitted by AlahAckbar (user info) at 2004-08-05 10:49:42 (#)
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I got accused of rape. Seriously.
A 19 year old girl accused me of coming to her parents house when they were not home, and raping her. She had many many details. Date (nov 17th), Time (11:30 at night), liscense plate number, everything.
We had never had sex, and I though we were just freinds. Apparently she thought we were more. I had started dating another girl, and she got pissed off. So she called the cops, saying I raped her. She showed up at my barracks, saying I raped her. She went to my commander, saying I raped her. She went to he mp's saying I raped her. She went to the 1st cav div commander, saying I raped her.
So needless to say, when I got back from leave on nov 21st, for which I left (and was dropped off at the airport by my tank commander) on nov 6th, they had a few questions for me. Like "who was that dumb bitch?" and "do you want to press charges?" and "why did she tell everyone you raped her while you were 1200 miles away?"
I went straight from the airport to her house, and she promptly called the cops. They showed up, I showed them my plane tickets, the pictures (with dates on them, I in fact was at my buddies house on Nov 17th), the reciepts I had for an atm transaction at midnight on the 17th, etc. etc. etc.
Then she got arrested for filing a false police report. Then we all laughed.
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+2 because I want to see this posted in more detail!
Submitted by MickGinny (user info) at 2004-08-06 10:45:13 EDT (#)
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ummm, rape is bad, mmmkay?
that dj fucking WHORE!
Submitted by ohlookasquirrel (user info) at 2004-08-05 22:01:17 EDT (#)
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I've just had my own lovely experience.
Didn't get as far as rape, but did pretty much fuck up my life.
Submitted by munkeypants (user info) at 2004-08-05 19:11:03 EDT (#)
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wow. the other side of the coin.
Submitted by Lacksmotivation (user info) at 2004-08-05 18:57:22 EDT (#)
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+2 for the writing, but mostly for the stress you must have gone thru at the time. I had something very similar happen to me years ago. This girl I wasnt too interested in caught me at 2 a.m. drunk and got mad when I wouldn't make a trip for some protection. Month's later I found out she told everyone who would listen that I had tried to "get her drunk and take advantage". Needless to say she was a slut of the same caliber as your friend there, and things blew over. Have yet to feel the same anger and fustration as I did in those few days.
Submitted by shark25 (user info) at 2004-08-05 17:55:28 EDT (#)
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Hey RB I would like to join ASPTN.
SPT has gotten so bad I do not even post on thursdays anymore because not many people would read my stuff.
Submitted by Anansie (user info) at 2004-08-05 15:22:04 EDT (#)
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I don't understand at all. Maybe it was the way I was raised. Why the fuck do women do that shit? They don't understand that they are fucking up someone's life horribly, for whatever petty reason: attention, jealousy, etc. Or maybe they do understand, which makes it even worse. And women who do that make light of an actual tragedy. It is a horrible thing to do to a man, and to do to all the women who have actually been raped. I just don't get it. Have you ever had anything that was just so opposite to your own line of thinking that you couldn't comprehend it at all? That's what those women are like to me.
Submitted by whataefag (user info) at 2004-08-05 12:46:31 EDT (#)
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http://www.ubersite.com/m/26853
Submitted by Snark (user info) at 2004-08-05 12:35:19 EDT (#)
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Scary Experience for you and Ackbar. I'm glad both stories have happy endings.
Submitted by reallybored (user info) at 2004-08-05 12:33:42 EDT (#)
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"I did my best to help my friend out and introduced him to every slut, whore, and freshman chick I could find." This type of callaous descripton (or way of thinking) doesn't help your case in this context.
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I dont see the issue with this at all. How does me trying to introduce my buddy to slutty girls (thats what they were) have anything to do with the meat of the story? Maybe im missing something.
Submitted by reallybored (user info) at 2004-08-05 12:30:37 EDT (#)
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I read that rape post by Smurf and in it he made a sort of semi-derogratory comment to all the rape posts that are not Lojos.
My post has nothing to do with lojos at all. I was going to write about this earlier, but didnt want to because i dont know how people would take it. This post isnt even that good (tons of spelling and grammar mistakes).
Thats it.
Submitted by ParlorTrick (user info) at 2004-08-05 12:28:25 EDT (#)
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I appreciate the raw honesty of this post. She was wrong. I'm sorry for it's impact. I glad it didn't escalate for you, but it should've for her.
A suggestion - I realize Ubersite is a 'familar' environment and you are speaking perhaps uncensored however...
"I did my best to help my friend out and introduced him to every slut, whore, and freshman chick I could find." This type of callaous descripton (or way of thinking) doesn't help your case in this context.
Submitted by Cryopaul (user info) at 2004-08-05 12:16:55 EDT (#)
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A very long story, but well worth the read. I'm glad none of that shit happened to me while I was in college. Glad to hear she got her teeth knocked in though.
Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:54:38 EDT (#)
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+2 because AllahAckbar story is fuckin' hilarious
Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:52:23 EDT (#)
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I had an ex who once spreaded the word I was beating her while she was the one being violent.
I've seen so many guys sent to prison for a night because their girlfriend played the victim for the fun of it. Because of these lying whores, I can't imagine myself trusting a woman.
Honeslty, I believe your story a 100% while I really doubt lojope's one.
Submitted by lojope (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:45:25 EDT (#)
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Thank you for sharing this. And I am truly sorry for what that horrible bitch did. I apoligize on behalf of my gender. She should have been put in jail. I'm glad that the truth came out, and I am glad that there were people who stood by you.
Submitted by RyuFu (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:44:15 EDT (#)
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No Comment
Submitted by shark25 (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:35:13 EDT (#)
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Submitted by hidden101 (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:27:01 EDT (#)
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when you live in a dorm, all kinds of crazy shit like that happens. i used to see it all the time.
i'm glad you didn't get fucked over.
did you really screw that girl right after your friend did, though? *RALPH*
Submitted by EatMeCompletely (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:24:48 EDT (#)
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Been in that situation, too. I don't care to talk about it, but I feel your pain.
Submitted by William_Q_Percy (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:15:40 EDT (#)
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Submitted by funk_boy (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:11:02 EDT (#)
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Fucking hell. That's shite.
I consider her to be as evil as the rapists.
Submitted by jb (user info) at 2004-08-05 11:00:08 EDT (#)
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Very interesting. I'm currently reading a book by Helena Kennedy about women in the UK's Criminal Justice system - it had a whole lot of opinion about rape trials etc
Submitted by spedmonkey (user info) at 2004-08-05 10:53:19 EDT (#)
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As the other guys said, glad it worked out in the end.
Submitted by AlahAckbar (user info) at 2004-08-05 10:49:42 EDT (#)
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I got accused of rape. Seriously.
A 19 year old girl accused me of coming to her parents house when they were not home, and raping her. She had many many details. Date (nov 17th), Time (11:30 at night), liscense plate number, everything.
We had never had sex, and I though we were just freinds. Apparently she thought we were more. I had started dating another girl, and she got pissed off. So she called the cops, saying I raped her. She showed up at my barracks, saying I raped her. She went to my commander, saying I raped her. She went to he mp's saying I raped her. She went to the 1st cav div commander, saying I raped her.
So needless to say, when I got back from leave on nov 21st, for which I left (and was dropped off at the airport by my tank commander) on nov 6th, they had a few questions for me. Like "who was that dumb bitch?" and "do you want to press charges?" and "why did she tell everyone you raped her while you were 1200 miles away?"
I went straight from the airport to her house, and she promptly called the cops. They showed up, I showed them my plane tickets, the pictures (with dates on them, I in fact was at my buddies house on Nov 17th), the reciepts I had for an atm transaction at midnight on the 17th, etc. etc. etc.
Then she got arrested for filing a false police report. Then we all laughed.
Submitted by comicbookguy (user info) at 2004-08-05 10:49:25 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Charred (user info) at 2004-08-05 10:47:02 EDT (#)
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Engagingly written.
Seeing that punch must have felt great.
Submitted by kai070169 (user info) at 2004-08-05 10:44:39 EDT (#)
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+2 for not mentioning babies. A rape accusation is a powerful weapon - a great equalizer when it comes to the empowerment of women in society. Fucking bitches!
Submitted by Kracka (user info) at 2004-08-05 10:41:22 EDT (#)
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sucks for what happened but cool that it all worked out in the end
-Blakc Ninja