"babe, we really need to talk..." (633 hits)
Category: RomanceRating: 0 on 16 reviews (Rate this item) (V)
Submitted by Swallow_it <grr4u.at.hotmail.com> (View user info) at 2004-09-08 10:02:02 EDT
He said we needed to talk. So we sat on his bed in the dark to talk. He listed off all of the things he's scared of in our relationship. I took the hits, commented where it was necessary and patiently waited for him to finish. I listed what I'm scared of in our relationship. Next thing I know, he's telling me he's just realizing that I am perfect. He's trying to make me believe that in our relationship - not in life - I am perfect. But I'm not even close. Yeah a lot of the time my reactions stemmed from his jealousy or lack of self confidence, or even over dose of self confidence; but not everything. I told him over and over to stop saying that, because its not true. But he wouldn't listen. He just got more and more pissed.
Me telling him what I was scared of wasn't an attempt to get off the hook for my fuck ups. Not in any way, shape, or form. I was simply telling him what i'm worried about. But that's fine. Now our relationship hangs from one single thread and I'm not sure what should happen with that thread. I mean, should we keep jumping around and see how much it will hold? Should we just cut it and end this thing we worked so hard for? Or should we hold each other and brace for impact so that if it breaks, we will be stronger because of it?
I'm really not sure.
This is my first post. Go ahead and -2 it all you want. This just had to come out of me.
User Reviews
Submitted by finfan3 (user info) at 2004-09-08 14:35:00 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
Hahaha, I'm with Loren. About time somebody doesn't care about ratings. ha
Anyways, I got with the last choice... just embrace eachother for the fall and see what happens!
Submitted by Loren1 (user info) at 2004-09-08 14:24:14 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
"This is my first post. Go ahead and -2 it all you want. This just had to come out of me. "
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I'm so tired of reading this self-defeating, please don't -2 me, whining crap I could scream.
And for the love of GOD, stop making excuses for sucking before anyone even TELLS you you suck.
OK.
You can start making excuses now.
Submitted by kingjc (user info) at 2004-09-08 14:04:50 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
nice post, think lot of us guys do have a problem of putting girl friends on pedal stools. we only do it because we really like the girls we are with - whats the other choice - say that the last partner we had was better?
Easiest solution, loose the emotional baggage! easier said than done but works.
Submitted by Pancakes (user info) at 2004-09-08 13:59:09 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
Lose the guy, I don't know how long you've been together, but any man who says, "We need to talk." probably has ovaries.
Submitted by WhatTheHell (user info) at 2004-09-08 12:35:53 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
Submitted by Ainkara (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:27:21 (#)
Ranking: 1
I may not be too good at advice...
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Now THERE'S A FUCKING UNDERSTATEMENT AND A HALF!!
Hahahahaa...
Keep posting by the way!
Submitted by Totally_useless (user info) at 2004-09-08 12:05:49 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
Keep posting. People who can construct a coherent sentence or two are usually welcomed here with open orifices. Paragraphs are good, too.
Submitted by Disco_Inferno (user info) at 2004-09-08 11:31:26 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
slap him in the face and tell him to stop acting like a bitch and cowboy up.
Submitted by thaumaturge (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:58:03 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Tell him to stop being a pussy.
Submitted by Julia (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:56:53 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
Flee. It's hard to leave something into which you've put a lot of time and effort, but any person who insists you are perfect and gets mad when you deny it is a freak. That doesn't show the kind of self-worth and realism needed in a good relationship. Sorry.
Submitted by Random Joe at 2004-09-08 10:54:54 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
sounds like you are already checking out the market
Submitted by Bizdorph (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:53:24 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
-2 because...oh to hell with it. Fuck you.
Submitted by apollo88 (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:50:04 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
Submitted by WillZone (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:14:21 (#)
Ranking: 0
I liked it up intil you said: "This is my first post."
thats a no-no. i'll spare you the -2. keep posting. """"
Will is nicer than me.
Submitted by AwesomeJohnson (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:41:47 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
no hay comment
Submitted by Duke_Prometheus_III (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:36:07 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1
With a name like swallow it, I doubt he'll be going anywhere soon.
Submitted by Ainkara (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:27:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
Sorry to hear it...
If it's worth holding onto, you will. You have to stop and try to understand if what you have is worth sticking around for.
I may not be too good at advice...
Submitted by WillZone (user info) at 2004-09-08 10:14:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
I liked it up intil you said: "This is my first post."
thats a no-no. i'll spare you the -2. keep posting.