A new Love or A little about me (701 hits)
Category: RomanceRating: 0.78 on 11 reviews (Rate this item) (V)
Submitted by Eric Hays <agulot.at.yahoo.com> (View user info) at 2004-12-05 06:53:28 EST
In May I told my wife it was over, packed a couple bags and went to stay with my parents. Neither one of us had been happy for a very long time and it was starting to affect our children. It was for the best so I'm not upset or hurt. We are still friends and are closer now then when we were dating 10 years ago.
Anyway I guess you could say I'm always been a bit of a romantic and last February I was online in an interactive chat room (a mudd for those who know what that is) when a girl came out of know where and licked me and took off again. I spent the next 2 hours playing Lick tag with some unknown chick on the mudd. The next night I got back on and we talked for a while. Over then next few months, we became very good friends. Such good friends that I told her things I would not have told anyone else, thing I have never told anyone else. She told me things about her that she had kept secret as well and we just seemed to get closer.
At this point though I had no real interest in starting any relationship other then friends, and in May when I left my wife I asked my new friend if I could call her. She agreed and when I did, it was NOT what I expected.
"What the F..K do you think you're doing. You have kids, and responsibilities. Go home and work things out with your wife dude"
What a shock. Here I expected to be consoled by my new very close friend, and I get an ass chewing. What struck me was that she told me exactly how she felt about it. She didn't soften the blow or tell me what I wanted to hear like a lot of my other friends were doing.
This went on for almost two months. We talked about other things but the first things out of her mouth were always, "Have you talked with your wife yet? Have you worked it out?" In July however I was in a motorcycle accident which crushed three of my vertebra and left me bed ridden. Nothing can teach you humility like depending others for EVERYTHING. I couldn't even wipe my own ass. I learned a lot of things and one of them was that my new friend stopped asking about when I was going to get back with my wife, and started asking if there was anything she could do to help. We talked every night for 2-3 hours raking up over 4000 minutes on my cell phone. Thank god for mobile to mobile minutes
Three weeks later I decided to have a long talk with my wife and see if anything could be salvaged. I was told by her that she was heart broken when I left, but agreed it was for the best. She did not want to try and work it out anymore. I thought I would be a lot more hurt hearing "I don't love you or want you anymore" then I was. That night I called my friend and told her what had happened. She said she was sorry for me but had decided that if it wasn't going to work out with my wife, she would like to try with me.
Now let me put this relationship into perspective. I'm 29 married, with a 5 y/o girl and a 9 y/o boy and live in the Midwest. She is 19, one year out of high school, living on the east coast. There really isn't much chance of this working out. Right?
The second week in august I was released to go back to work from my accident. It was tough walking around in a back brace and sitting at a desk all day. I was addicted to oxycodone by this point and still in a LOT of pain. Every night though I still talked to my friend or we would get online and chat. Sometimes we did both. We exchanged pictures (yes I sent her a REAL picture) and I was surprised by how beautiful she was. Everyday I started to feel better, and with her support I broke my addiction.
By the first of September I was out of my back brace and the Doctor says I'll have should have no long term damage. It was then that I invited my friend to come visit me for a week. She accepted and we made our plans. Things got a little complicated because right after we made plans ... I accepted a new job offer.
Our week was amazing. She was the most perfect girl I had ever met. Beautiful, funny, and not afraid to let me have it. She was not perfect for everyone ... but she was perfect for me. 5'6 110 big eyes, Everything I wanted. The only Glitch ... her ex Boy friend.
Continued tomorrow
User Reviews
Submitted by CookieLass (user info) at 2004-12-05 14:27:32 EST (#)
Ranking: -1
ditto Ashlee and Circe. Maybe if you'd paid the attention to her that you spent on some random teenager, she would have felt safer being physical with you. Ass. God I hate men so much.
Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2004-12-05 11:59:58 EST (#)
Ranking: 0
meh.... what circe said.
Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2004-12-05 11:48:28 EST (#)
Ranking: -1
Oh yeah...this NEXT "relationship" has "Love Boat" written all over it. Yeah. Sure it does.
19 and she's already bitching at you over the phone.
I hope you keep the double wide in your name only.
Submitted by mikethescottish (user info) at 2004-12-05 10:19:16 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
An interesting read.
Submitted by Timmah (user info) at 2004-12-05 08:22:39 EST (#)
Ranking: 1
:) made me smile
Submitted by ICO (user info) at 2004-12-05 08:11:16 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
I have an urge to hear more. some then/than errors, but hey, I don't care.
Submitted by PuNKaSS4_20 (user info) at 2004-12-05 07:48:59 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
man,, i didn't know.............
Submitted by Quasiplasmohedron (user info) at 2004-12-05 07:47:59 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
No Comment
Submitted by PuNKaSS4_20 (user info) at 2004-12-05 07:42:50 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
you go girl!
Submitted by agulot (user info) at 2004-12-05 07:33:10 EST (#)
Ranking: 0
Yeah they were screwed up. I had a lot to do with our split ... but so did she. The last two years it was difficult to get a kiss let along anything else she would say "I don't feel very pretty". It's difficult to share things with some one who won't touch you. She never really made me feel safe enough to tell her those things. We got married cause she got pregnant. It was the wrong reason to do it.
Submitted by Circe (user info) at 2004-12-05 07:14:30 EST (#)
Ranking: 0
"Such good friends that I told her things I would not have told anyone else, thing I have never told anyone else."
You should have been telling those things to your wife, not to a girl on the internet. No wonder your mariage failed; your priorities are incredibly screwed up.