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Submitted by Holly (View user info) at 2005-02-28 22:50:21 EST

So I had this brilliant idea to write out this emotional story about marriage and betrayal and
all that bullshit. The only problem is, I'm an idiot. Yes, I'm glad you all agree.

I was going to write about the pain of the girl leaving her family behind to start a brand new life across the country, about how she must deal with her husband being sent away for weeks at a time because of his job. I was going to write about how they conceived a child and found out
while he was out of town and how she had to sit at home alone and worry over it night after night by herself for several weeks before he came home. After his parents promised to help everyone was so excited but after five weeks of pregnancy she began bleeding heavily. She spent five hours in the emergency room screaming in pain, vomiting, and bleeding, while being refused water or ice despite her being dehydrated. After the doctors finally do see her it is to tell her she miscarried. I was going to tell all about the loss the couple felt and how they struggled for
the next several months to deal with the pain and how it strained their relationship with each other.

I was going to end the series by writing about how the husband suddenly grows cold and stops coming home after work. She begs him to tell her what is going on and why he has grown so
distant. He responds by calling his once cherished wife a cunt and a rotten bitch and spends
each day tearing her apart emotionally. She begs him to tell her if he's found someone else or
if he want to divorce so she can go back home with her family but he refuses to give her this release. Instead he pretends he wants to work things out and he pretends he still loves her.
One night he never comes home and she finds out he is at a woman's house. That is it for the
girl and she moves out. He comes home to an empty house and a long letter about how she tried
her best. He realizes he does indeed love this girl and begs her to come home. He cries over
their wedding pictures and promises to do anything to make things right. She agrees and comes
home the next morning. They make up and she goes to work only to receive a phone call from the lover she didn't know her husband had. The lover tells her everything about how they had sex
four days after meeting and how he spent all of his time at her house. She finds out how they
met the days after her and her husbands one year anniversary and how her husband claimed they were divorced.

Trying to make this insanely long story short, she confronts him and leaves him for the next month. He begs and cries for forgiveness and one more chance. She gives him one more chance and the next few months are total hell for her. He obviously tries his absolute best but what he
did haunts her everyday.

And that is the story of the last year of my life. I thought I could write about it but a few months ago would have been the month I delivered my baby. It's only been two months since my husband cheated on me. He's been perfect the last few months but it's been hard getting over what he did. I'm terrified it's going to happen again and my idea to write about it didn't help too much. I realized I am nowhere near healed of all that's happened so I'm going to give up attempting to write something creative from my experience.

I'm going to continue to use this account to review other people's work and that will probably be it.

Now, Please linkwhore yourselves here for interesting (safe for work) things for me to read and review while bored at work. I promise to review every uber post submitted here (unless it's porn related and may cost me my job. It may take a while but I'll fuckin' do it. BRING IT THE FUCK
ON!

User Reviews

Submitted by podium (user info) at 2005-03-22 17:59:31 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

No Comment

Submitted by Val (user info) at 2005-03-13 21:17:30 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

I don't really know why, but I like you.

My fiancee cheated on me after a year.

He hit me also.

I'm not with him anymore.

+2 for you. I like you.

Submitted by thecaes (user info) at 2005-03-03 22:08:45 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

Sigh. It's sad when people are like that. You seem like a decent sort, and I feel bad that you had to go through that giant mess.

Here. Sweet gladiators ease the pain. http://www.ubersite.com/m/60359

Also, monsters who live inside children can ease pain too. Just not as much as gladiators. http://www.ubersite.com/m/55310

Submitted by thorpe (user info) at 2005-03-03 19:09:07 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/57650

Always +2 a linkwhore

Submitted by JonnyX (user info) at 2005-03-03 18:59:22 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

http://www.ubersite.com/m/50371

First and best (for now)

Submitted by TheSpook (user info) at 2005-03-01 15:36:14 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

So many reasons to not get married...

they just keep coming

Submitted by Stin (user info) at 2005-03-01 12:05:17 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Good luck sweetheart.

I'm not going to linkwhore you my writing, because if you're feeling wobbly anyway it probably won't make you feel any better. But if you ever want an ear to bend, either take AlwaysAnEagle up on her offer (she's a damn, damn good listener and gives excellent advice) or drop me a line; clcampion.at.hotmail.com

Submitted by ruthless (user info) at 2005-03-01 11:53:53 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/40199

Submitted by peckerhead (user info) at 2005-03-01 11:38:16 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

Submitted by MrWillard (user info) at 2005-03-01 00:39:03 (#)
Ranking: 2

Get counseling....it helps.

No...I'm not being an ass....I'm serious

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I second MrWillard's idea. If you are skeptical or cannot find a good counsellor then I recommend amazon.com where they have an amazing "search" engine. I recommend either Wayne Dyer or Deepak Chopra. I'll not list or give links to my stories because there are much better authors below. I sense that most of the comments have been genuine. I hope that the links that have been given will lead to stories or reading that will be of help and comfort. I wish you well.

Submitted by Teephphah (user info) at 2005-03-01 11:14:46 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

"Holly" = "Holz", huh?

Damn kid. You've been through some shit. You dropped a tidbit about your story on one of my posts once, and I haven't forgotten about it, in fact, it has sort of haunted me. You told even that one little bit very well, and I sincerely hope that you will write more about it.
When you feel up to it.

I just wrote something that might fit your last year a little . . . http://www.ubersite.com/m/60601.
From the man's perspective. Well, from A man's perspective. I can be a worthless shit, but I'd never be the kind of worthless shit to cheat on my wife.

Hang in there kid, this too shall pass.

Submitted by ess-arr (user info) at 2005-03-01 09:58:48 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

I liked what I read...
but here are some linkwhores anyway,
http://www.ubersite.com/m/54796
http://www.ubersite.com/m/57050

Thanks Holl,

Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2005-03-01 09:35:59 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

Man, that sucks. Hit him with a frying pan and move out...Life gets better.

Submitted by Professional_Peon (user info) at 2005-03-01 09:32:47 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Some things are very hard to put into words. It will take time

http://www.ubersite.com/m/59994 <-- My attempt at sincere writing.
This is a true story as far as my six year old mind could recall. It took me over twenty years to write about it.

http://www.ubersite.com/m/59873 <-- Fun with booze and a video camera.
This is for shits and giggles and is SFW.

Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2005-03-01 09:25:05 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/47397

Submitted by funk_boy (user info) at 2005-03-01 08:27:53 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

this is real good like. write more please.

you have the choice of reading, or looking at my posts.

http://www.ubersite.com/m/60620
http://www.ubersite.com/m/33041 <= NSFW

but i wouldn't recommend them.

this is better;
http://www.rathergood.com/

Submitted by Calios (user info) at 2005-03-01 08:15:59 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/57651

Submitted by Ivy (user info) at 2005-03-01 04:29:08 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Sorry I forgot to rate this before

Submitted by Avals (user info) at 2005-03-01 04:01:35 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

Woah. That ... that kinda sucks, you know? I'm really not good at it, so just pretend I said some hugely inspiring and comforting shit here.
My last 3 posts are kinda depressing, in case you -- you know -- weren't suicidal enough as it is.

Submitted by Walrus_King (user info) at 2005-03-01 03:52:34 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Sorry about your troubles, 'm sure that everything will pan out in the end, the only problem is that you will have trouble trusting him again.

On a brighter note here is a couple of linkwhores.
http://www.ubersite.com/m/23122 - one of my older favorites,
http://www.ubersite.com/m/58878 - magpies and smokers
http://www.ubersite.com/m/59220 - someday soon everything will be acronyms,

Submitted by tinactin (user info) at 2005-03-01 03:47:32 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/52112

Submitted by Siren (user info) at 2005-03-01 02:51:28 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

I was almost going to be a bitch and -2 this because A. My name is Holly, too B. There's another Holly on here besides us C. This post almost seemed like whining from a noob.

BUT

Instead I'm embracing all that. In fact, I A. Like the name Holly B. Want to form a band of Hollys to fight crime worldwide C. Realized the way this was posted was actually a clever way to squeeze in your story, and D. Sympathize for you and will jump at a chance to linkwhore.

I'm totally and completely interesting, but here are my personal favorites:

http://www.ubersite.com/m/33213
http://www.ubersite.com/m/35631
http://www.ubersite.com/m/54266

Submitted by darko (user info) at 2005-03-01 02:08:05 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

a post about my only true love http://www.ubersite.com/m/52990

Submitted by Ivy (user info) at 2005-03-01 01:56:15 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

Oh honey, I know the pain that comes with the images that run through your mind when you go through something like that. I would link one of my own posts, but they're not terribly chirpy. If you haven't read it already, Badass Australian Cows in most viewed messages is fucking hilarious (that's how I originally found this site).

Submitted by Squijee (user info) at 2005-03-01 01:32:50 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

http://www.ubersite.com/m/56411

Submitted by Sassmasterr (user info) at 2005-03-01 01:03:22 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

shit, just get the whole thing...it's a lot of good stuff.

http://www.ubersite.com/u/Sassmasterr

Submitted by DonovanMD (user info) at 2005-03-01 01:02:42 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

http://www.ubersite.com/m/60860

Submitted by Sassmasterr (user info) at 2005-03-01 01:01:38 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/60511

Submitted by DanielH (user info) at 2005-03-01 00:57:49 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

It was not a mistake; it was cathartic, healthful, brave, and beneficial to others.

Your only mistake was stopping.
I have nothing for you to read here but the above.

Submitted by Lisa (user info) at 2005-03-01 00:51:27 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

http://www.ubersite.com/cgi-bin/message_get.cgi?user_id=1671

Submitted by MrWillard (user info) at 2005-03-01 00:39:03 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Get counseling....it helps.

No...I'm not being an ass....I'm serious

Submitted by williamson (user info) at 2005-03-01 00:31:35 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Ohhh. you're the blue haired boob chick. I remember that.

Submitted by williamson (user info) at 2005-03-01 00:30:51 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/53315

There's a good linkwhore for ya. Safe For Work and all. Enjoy.

Submitted by Rawrg (user info) at 2005-03-01 00:09:30 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Lesbians Give Us Hope For the Future

http://www.ubersite.com/m/60707

Submitted by Tigre (user info) at 2005-02-28 23:54:50 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Eh.. Heres a +2.. Meh.. ..I thought you were Holly Golietly(a drunken whore) which is why I left the comment. I have a few pretty good stories. Feel free to check mine out(I don't link whore or not leave comments).

Submitted by chipolatte (user info) at 2005-02-28 23:48:43 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

http://www.ubersite.com/m/38422

Not my best work ever, but probably my best fiction on Ubersite.

Submitted by Saxon (user info) at 2005-02-28 23:10:09 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

Not sure what kind of writing you like but i hope this makes you smile.

http://www.ubersite.com/m/54548

Submitted by Wiggles (user info) at 2005-02-28 23:07:56 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/42607

I'll be honest, I didn't read your first post, but I zeroed it anyway.

Submitted by Joemama (user info) at 2005-02-28 23:03:27 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

www.wumarkus.com/images/02211013.sfw

Submitted by AlwaysAnEagle (user info) at 2005-02-28 23:00:46 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

Um.

Hope you start feeling better. Feel free to email me if you just feel like venting. josie.brown.at.gmail.com

Chin up, dahlin.

Submitted by Awko (user info) at 2005-02-28 22:59:14 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

I was gonna use this reply to say something to try and make you feel better, but I don't have any experience with this sorta thing.

I wish I could say something but the only thing I can offer is...

"Need a hug?"