Why would I be jealous of a chubby emo kid?? (949 hits)
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Submitted by Howie Felter <imwillywonka.at.hotmail.com> (View user info) at 2005-03-02 19:43:29 EST
I'm not too sure, but it's happened. And to make matters worse...it involves my ex girlfriend...who I broke up with! Yes, men, start your line up for the preverbial bitch slapping that my ass now deserves.
I guess I'm just looking for insight on this one.
The relationship ended a few weeks ago when I dropped the bomb on her after a lot of internal communication and feeling that she wasn't treating me the way I feel I should be treated. It hit her incredibly hard and she cried like a new born baby being yanked from it's mother's teet. Part of me felt really bad and the other part patted myself on the back because she was showing a shining example of the immaturity that I could no longer stand.
Since then, it's as though her life has taken on a whole new persona, almost as though I was weighing her down just as much as she had to me. I was a bit upset that it seemed as though she was over me so fast after expressing how much love she felt and how she would be emotionally demolished if I ever left her. I was living my own life as well, admittedly, so I can't be critical towards that. The kicker is the new guy that she's been seeing a lot of...this is the cause of my internal confrontation.
This kid is one that she told me while we were together that he had a crush on her. She says now that he is over that, but I hardly doubt it. Reason being, the week that we broke up, she went to a party at his house and stayed the night. There weren't many people there, so I imgaine it was a rather intimate setting and I wouldn't doubt that they slept in the same bed...actually, I doubt that they didn't, if anything!
Since then, I've heard the guy's name a gagillion times. She's made plans to hang out with him at least 3 or 4 times in the past week now, going over there two nights ago late at night and he is currently home alone with her at her place as I type this. Why does it bug me? Good question.
For the past 2 weeks or so, I've had feelings for her again and we have been physically intimate and she still tells me how much she loves me and has no feelings for the him at all. She knows that it gets under my skin how much I hear his name and they are always making plans and stuff so I feel like she is pushing this at me for jealousy's purpose. I don't know if I'm just overreacting though because this all is very weird to me.
Part of me wants to get back with her, but the other part is so crushed by what is happening right now that I would never dream of it. Do I tell her that I can't handle her sudden interest in this guy and it is pushing me further away or do I suck it up and make my move to try and get her back but still have the fear in the back of my head that the chubby little emo kid is still on her mind?
I think that part of me, though, wants her back just for the fact that I will have someone. I'm going to University in a few months and chances are that the relationship wouldn't last long distance...but the spur of the moment me sort of wants her back just to have someone. The hard part is that she says she still wants to be with me and I tell her that I still want to be with her but I told her how I can't right now because I still don't feel like I can trust her (a big reason we broke up).
Am I out of line for thinking that since I told her how big the trust factor is for me, and how much this kid annoys me when they are constantly together, that she would take that as a sort of test and want to earn my trust back? Would she not want to not put herself in a situation where I might suspect she is sucking another man's love horn?? Maybe I'm asking too much of "a friend" but that's where my mind is at right now.
Part of me says "fuck it" and wishes to kick all emotions to the curb, while another part of me says "fuck her" and wishes to kick all hormones into over drive. She stayed overnight with me last night and we had sex this morning and now all of a sudden she's hanging out with him while her parents are gone?!?! To me, this does not make sense.
To you, does it???
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Submitted by Socialist_Joe (user info) at 2005-03-05 19:24:07 EST (#)
Ranking: -2
yeah...
Submitted by tuesdaydelay (user info) at 2005-03-03 18:41:26 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
http://www.faceparty.com/emo_twunt
Submitted by JonnyX (user info) at 2005-03-03 18:29:52 EST (#)
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Submitted by InsoManiac (user info) at 2005-03-03 09:23:29 (#)
Ranking: -2
Shut up dude.
You broke up with her for a reason, remember? The only reason you want her back now is because your ego can't handle the thought of her with someone else. I can guarantee you shes screwing him too, youre gettin played, and theres a good chance youre gonna catch some of the peepee fire from this bitch if youre not careful. Youre going to college in what, a few months? If you want to screw her now, fine, just wear a rubber, and then go to college and forget this bitch. You have no idea how many fine women are going to be there, just ripe for the taking. Did I mention they will be drunk? Even a puss like you is bound to get some action.
Conclusion: quit being a pussy. It doesnt even matter what you do with this girl as long as you grow a pair and quit being a whiney bitch.
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The above comments are 100% correct FOLLOW AND OBEY THEM!
Submitted by InsoManiac (user info) at 2005-03-03 09:23:29 EST (#)
Ranking: -2
Shut up dude.
You broke up with her for a reason, remember? The only reason you want her back now is because your ego cant handle the thought of her with someone else. I can guarantee you shes screwing hinm too, youre gettin played, and theres a good chance youre gonna catch some of the peepee fire from this bitch if youre not careful. Youre going to college in what, a few months? If you want to screw her now, fine, just wear a rubber, and then go to college and forget this bitch. You have no idea how many fine women are going to be there, just ripe for the taking. Did I mention they will be drunk? Even a puss like you is bound to get some action.
Conclusion: quit being a pussy. It doesnt even matter what you do with this girl as long as you grow a pair and quit being a whiney bitch.
Submitted by Viciousriffs (user info) at 2005-03-03 05:42:47 EST (#)
Ranking: -1
First things first.... if you were looking for relationship advice in the serious mindset, it seems you came to the worst place in the planet. Nobody here gives a flying fuck- do what you're gonna do, come to this site to escape all that and be slightly amusing, and never the twain shall meet. If you're are such a jellyfish that you can't decide what to do with your own lovelife, then this could be a good learning experience for you. However, since I am the generous man that I am, I will give you the very fucking best advice forseeable in this situation (as told by the Grand Poobah of Magic 8 Balls):
Cut and run, bitch! You dropped her ass for a reason- whether it's because you're a dipshit, or because she's a skank whore, it matters not- what's done is done. Some goofy kid's tapping your previous spam shack? Good for him. Keep fucking the girl, since it sounds like that's all you liked about her anyway, and don't worry about him- at least you know that you have no delusions about the situation, whereas he might, thus you are avenged twofold. Proving to your ex that she is a whore by fucking her? That's a winner.... The only thing you have left to do is cum all over her face as you tell her how much of an insecure, dirty whore with no self-esteem she is. Why beat emo boy's ass if you can ruin her completely instead? What's that, you can't do it? Maybe because the asshole in this scenario is you, not her.
All the pieces are here. Friends, let's take a moment or two to assemble this tasteless yet magnetic scene. Let me know how it works out (I ask since I'm pretty confident you will anyway)
And yes, I realize that I give the greatest relationship advice ever. In fact, fuck it, you can all write to me about your relationship issues, I'll solve them all for ya. E-mail's right by the user name, when you can't fix your own fucking life, you're not pathetic, just slower and dumber than I.
Submitted by hobbs (user info) at 2005-03-03 05:15:23 EST (#)
Ranking: -1
Get a bit drunk, go 'round hers, kiss his whiney emo fucking ass and fuck your girl right there, prefably playing some classic rock.
Dont bother me with your probs again.
Submitted by wardy (user info) at 2005-03-03 02:23:30 EST (#)
Ranking: -2
I guess I'm just looking for insight on this one.
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i'm guessing you should go fuck yourself, and stop looking for advice from total strangers on the internet.
Submitted by BoogieFevuh (user info) at 2005-03-03 00:34:26 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
Drink some beer then fuck him up. One/both of those always makes me feel better.
Submitted by Pentameter (user info) at 2005-03-02 20:26:00 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
Submitted by AwesomeJohnson (user info) at 2005-03-02 19:55:38 (#)
Ranking: 2
you = used. fat emo kid = used. her = jerk-face. and it's proverbial.
Submitted by getyourvoltronon (user info) at 2005-03-02 20:14:19 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
just go kick his ass, you could take him.
Submitted by MrRottenTreats (user info) at 2005-03-02 20:13:48 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
I know exactly how you feel, I'm in this situation right now with my ex.
Except her new guy is ginger and curly. Mind you, she's not as hot as she used to be..But curly ginger...c'mon whats wrong with these women?!
Submitted by L-Gizzle (user info) at 2005-03-02 20:08:17 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
went through the same thing with my first "love". know exactly how you feel. but take my word for it, it'll pass and you'll realize she wasn't the one for you anyway.
Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2005-03-02 20:05:37 EST (#)
Ranking: -2
Part of me thinks that you're about 17 years old. Why else would I be reading this shit?
Submitted by Howie_Felter (user info) at 2005-03-02 19:58:05 EST (#)
Ranking: 0
I still care because she was my first love...and I know that it is my first, so there will be others, but it's hard to picture at this point. I don't know if I still love her for who she is or if I just love the comfort that she gave me. I know she will never be a nun, but so soon is what gets me. And yes, I broke it up so I should be able to move on easy, but I'm a young 20 year old chap (good call) so it's harder, I guess. ef, I'll probably just end up moving on.
Submitted by olivia_tremor_control (user info) at 2005-03-02 19:57:40 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
i have this problem. i dump her but then get jealous of what she moves on to. it goes away.
fuck chubby emo kids. whenver i see one i try my hardest to blow cigarette smoke in their face when i pass them.
Submitted by AwesomeJohnson (user info) at 2005-03-02 19:55:38 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
you = used. fat emo kid = used. her = jerk-face. and it's proverbial.
Submitted by L-Gizzle (user info) at 2005-03-02 19:52:53 EST (#)
Ranking: 0
first, i'm going to assume you're young(early twenties maybe?). if not, please correct me. she's telling you about him to make you jealous, and most likely fucked him to get back at you. just drop her and forget about it. a girl like that will eventually make your life hell.
Submitted by youarsoghey (user info) at 2005-03-02 19:47:38 EST (#)
Ranking: 2
For the love of God, go with "fuck it." You broke up with her, why do you still care about what she does? It seems like you never want to be with her again, and she's not going to become a nun, so learn how to deal with it.