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Submitted by Chris Svolopoulos <EvilZurr.at.gundamwing.net> (View user info) at 2003-04-15 16:25:49 EDT
alright, this has been bugging me, but i have a few short yet sweet questions that i probably shouldnt ask here. oh well:
1) when is it ok to date your friend's ex?
2) when is it ok to get back together with one of your ex's (its been a year and she wants me back)?
3) why is it that friends with benefits never works?
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Submitted by EvilZurr (user info) at 2003-04-15 20:12:43 EDT (#)
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yea well, they dated for a bit, broke up because it wasnt working, dated again for a week because she still wanted him, but then he cut it off and we're all cool about it; still friends and all. IM not the one interested in her, its another friend of mine. im just wondering cuz we all mock him for trying it when we dont agree.
also, the friends with benefits didnt work for me the last few times because a) i left cabo b) she wanted more c) she got a boyfriend. its not that they arent sluts, but ill agree with LSM when i say its human nature to always want more. dont look at me, id never break off casual sex unless i was really offended or had deep feelings for someone else.
Submitted by firefly (user info) at 2003-04-15 17:20:57 EDT (#)
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maybe sometimes it works it depends on the people
Submitted by Jimmy <jka23.at.hotmail.com> at 2003-04-15 17:16:21 EDT (#)
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You can date your friend's ex. Right now, I'm dating my best friend's ex, they went out for two weeks, broke up for a week, and then I went out with her. The only problem is that sometimes i catch myself thinking if she still likes him and what not. But since its been three months, i should really not think that sort of thing. Yeah, as long as your friend is cool with the idea, its okay. Different people bring out different sets of emotions in people and reactions.
friends with benefits never work because one person always wants to step the relationship up to the next level while the other person just wants a fuck buddy.
and never go back to your ex's. NEVER! Its called the one time rule. You have one chance to date me. And if it fails, it fails. I broke that once, and it turned into a failure. so yeah, learn from that.
Submitted by chicagogirl <bussyzmom.at.aol.com> at 2003-04-15 17:03:46 EDT (#)
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did you guys see the new icon on our threads? the # sign that takes you to your previous response. is that new or am I just blind?
Submitted by poisonyourkids (user info) at 2003-04-15 16:56:30 EDT (#)
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godspeed chicago....godspeed....
Submitted by chicagogirl <bussyzmom.at.aol.com> at 2003-04-15 16:50:56 EDT (#)
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done...
Submitted by poisonyourkids (user info) at 2003-04-15 16:48:51 EDT (#)
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THATS THE SPIRIT...BRIGHTEN SOMEONES DAY!!!!
Submitted by chicagogirl <bussyzmom.at.aol.com> at 2003-04-15 16:46:36 EDT (#)
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3) why is it that friends with benefits never works?
You dont have friends who are slutty enough...go get some slutty friends... OR if you are referring to how it will ruin the friendship, you just gotta play that hand as it is dealt to you my friend...
I didnt think knowing the person meant being slutty.
Ok next time i will find a stranger on the street.
Submitted by poisonyourkids (user info) at 2003-04-15 16:43:47 EDT (#)
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Thats what im saying,slutty girls!!! haha, just kiddin chicago, or am I? *raises eyebrow menacingly*
Submitted by Razor (user info) at 2003-04-15 16:43:13 EDT (#)
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1) Pretty much never unless your friend doesn't care. There's no time limit on how long it might matter.
2) Good luck, sucker. You're setting yourself up for Round 2
3) It can work, it just usually doesn't.
Submitted by chicagogirl <bussyzmom.at.aol.com> at 2003-04-15 16:39:17 EDT (#)
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1) when is it ok to date your friend's ex?
never. if it was not good enough for your friend then why would you want scraps.
2) when is it ok to get back together with one of your ex's (its been a year and she wants me back)?
never. if it doesnt work out the first time why the hell would it work out 1 year later. It took me 3 years to figure that shit out.
3) why is it that friends with benefits never works?
I really need a friend with benefits!!
;-)
Submitted by poisonyourkids (user info) at 2003-04-15 16:36:33 EDT (#)
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People might think my answers are weird but i have experience with all 3 of these and it has led me to believe that...
1) when is it ok to date your friend's ex?
Possibly, and most likely never, unless the friend is cool with it. If they broke up on bad terms you might as well say fuck her and find somone else cause it makes for shitty and awkward situations...you can get yourself into it but you will just want to get right back out...
2) when is it ok to get back together with one of your ex's (its been a year and she wants me back)?
The ball is in your court here, let her hang for a while if she was a shit to you before, (gotta be cruel to be kind...make sure she knows you wont take any shit) or be a swell guy and take her right back without any malice... it all depends on the situation
3) why is it that friends with benefits never works?
You dont have friends who are slutty enough...go get some slutty friends... OR if you are referring to how it will ruin the friendship, you just gotta play that hand as it is dealt to you my friend...
Submitted by lowsodiummonkey (user info) at 2003-04-15 16:30:41 EDT (#)
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Friends and benefits never work out because of human nature - jealousy.
You should nail you friend's ex and then work on getting your ex back and then try to convince her into threesome with you friend's ex. Then you'll find out if she "really" wants you back.