Depressed, Lonely, Confused (775 hits)
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Submitted by Duke Diggler (View user info) at 2005-04-20 03:13:24 EDT
Sorry for this being the second post today, the other was really short and just a request to see some of Rad's cute pups. Anyways, go ahead and -2 the hell out of me I really don't care, I just need an outlet and a small audience to vent my feelings.
I am having serious problems with my girlfriend. It is a long distance relationship, with infidelity on both sides. A relationship of 2 years that will likely end. To make things worse, several ex-girlfriends of mine have been calling me and while I would like to date one of them again eventually I see a road of hurt down any path I choose. Hell, there are several girls at school who would like to date me but frankly I'm not interested in them. So despite a relative plethora of hook-up options right now, I'm surprisingly miserable. Tonight's conversation with the girlfriend was almost a goodbye forever, and not only am I sad, but it made me realize that I am a bad person.
Call me a pussy, I cried because I feel bad for a lot of things I have done throughout my life. If you don't believe in a God, I respect that. But I do, and I feel that he is disappointed with me.
Here is a lame poem I just wrote that I'd like to share. I call it "The Land of the Right":
..................................................................................
They say there is a place
Where men and women of every race
will live forever
Where everyone is treated right
The deaf have hearing
The blind have sight
But they will not let me in
I've committed far too many sins
Happiness has forsaken me
And I will not get into Heaven.
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Submitted by fluff (user info) at 2005-07-17 17:15:31 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
tits=auto+2?
moron...
eat some auto -2's for that.
(I won't read the posts coz youre a stupid teenie)
Submitted by brownboybilly (user info) at 2005-04-21 04:43:01 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Yeah, take some solo time.
Bad for your eyes but you'll feel like a million dollars/pounds/ruppees; I'm sure.
Submitted by Soley_Trinity (user info) at 2005-04-20 13:11:39 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
Take out some solo time. You were probably only hanging in there because the relationship had become force of habit.
Submitted by The_Fan (user info) at 2005-04-20 11:49:47 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
"I am having serious problems with my girlfriend. It is a long distance relationship, with infidelity on both sides."
That sounds a lot like my relationship with Anna Kournikova
Submitted by Professional_Peon (user info) at 2005-04-20 10:17:00 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Relationships suck, especially long distance ones. You should come hang out with me. We'll go out, get ripped and I'm sure I could get an attractive female to slob your knob till you forget your worries.
Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2005-04-20 10:10:40 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
I totally agree with Pinnochio/gtz...No real sympathy from me, here.
If it makes you feel any better, Deke, she was unfaithful on you with Shlongy.
Submitted by gtz (user info) at 2005-04-20 09:55:49 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
Are you joking? This kid goes to everyone's post and talks shit, and then right afterwards, writes a post about crying over a chick that lives 50 miles away. He's asking for it. Be a man and atleast write this in a goddamn pink journal underneath your bed or something. It's because of idiots like these that want to make me fornicate with goats.
Submitted by Danzxc (user info) at 2005-04-20 09:28:06 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
Fag! Go a tampon for your rancid pussy!
Submitted by MANICMOTHER (user info) at 2005-04-20 09:26:03 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Don't sweat it too much, dear. With infidelity on both sides IT just wasn't going to happen.
Long distance relationships are not for the weak of willed or the young. There are too many temptations at your age to avoid them all if your significant other is too far away to support you.
I went through it right before I met my husband. I stayed he went to another state for college and ended up screwing half the co-eds in his dorm. Sad, yes, but things like this open the door for something new. Embrace the new existance and love will find you again.
Submitted by phuzzygish (user info) at 2005-04-20 09:22:56 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Heavy man. I think maybe you have a little alone time, focus on yourself for a while. There will always be women out there for you, but you don't need to always have one in your life. Take some time on your own, figure out what you want, I'm sure it'll help put things into perspective for you...
Submitted by brownboybilly (user info) at 2005-04-20 09:21:53 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
You big bunch of nasty bastards.
I don't know what you've done that you say is so bad but 9 times out of 10 it never is, so nuts to what these -2'ers have to say.
And you shitheads who dare to mock, just remember what goes around comes around and for those of you that haven't had hard times in their lives (and most of you will have) then I hope God opens up his bowels and takes a shit on that miniscule life of yours. And wipes his arse with your Grandmother's hairpiece.
You're nothing but oxygen theiving bastards and I hope you get run down by a milk float.
Submitted by freebie (user info) at 2005-04-20 09:09:37 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
Add loser to the title and you'll be covered.
Submitted by gtz (user info) at 2005-04-20 08:32:49 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
DIE
Submitted by gtz (user info) at 2005-04-20 08:32:36 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
Let me guess. You have bangs covering one of your eyes, and you wear skintight black t-shirts. If you can't make simple decisions on your behalf, I will make them for you.
You see that corner over there? Yeah that one.
Go and DIE in it.
Submitted by Jeanneee (user info) at 2005-04-20 08:27:24 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
If you are both cheating then you should probably break up and move on.
Enjoy being single for a while. Relationships suck and I am against them in most circumstances.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2005-04-20 07:49:26 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Ok here's what you do: Go to bed, get a long and good nights sleep, then get up and think about your needs and who the perfect woman is for you (you may want to write this stuff down). This will depress the hell out of you so as soon as your done with that, have a cry and go back to bed for more kip. Now when you wake up, get some mates round and get pissed, it dosn't matter what time it is just do it. Stay in bed for 3 full days thinking about perfect woman and further day simply asleep, upon waking get as far away from that bed as you possibly can. No half measures, get out of bed, right out of the bed and not half out, right out of the bed and grab your clothes. Get dressed in the kitchen.
Ok now that your suited and booted your ready to take on the world. Find that woman mate.
Alright I'll admit that last bit is easier said than done but it will work. Trust me, you know it makes sense.
Submitted by chronic_one (user info) at 2005-04-20 06:45:57 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
UUURRRPPP!!!!
Done.
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-04-20 06:39:27 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
FUckin jimbo
Submitted by apollo88 (user info) at 2005-04-20 06:26:08 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
drink beer.
Submitted by Merlina (user info) at 2005-04-20 04:52:41 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
liked this, especially the poem
Submitted by MrWillard (user info) at 2005-04-20 04:49:45 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
You need to find who you are. You seem to be walking around trying to find someone to define you, rather than defining yourself, and finding someone accepting of that reality.
Submitted by J4M3S (user info) at 2005-04-20 04:25:49 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
The best thing you could do is go get a root and stop writing poetry. If you need to hold onto a person that you never see to be happy, you are deluded. A long distance relationship is at least 80% sure to fail unless it's only for a few months at a time.(No this is not official) This is from experience, You will feel better if you end it sooner rather than later. Your day to day life apart will change both of you and in the end, if you are both in the same place and time again you will be rather different people from when you started going out. Better to break up in the first place and maybe restart your relationship in future if you both want to and can have some physical contact. Face it, at the moment you have a relationship with a phone call. I wish someone had hit me over the head with this, it would have saved me a lot of trouble.
Submitted by Wazza (user info) at 2005-04-20 04:24:10 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Hey Duke boy,i guess most of us have been through this kinda stuff, i know it is painfull but just try and get it into perspective uh?
I wrote this a long time ago,maybe it will help.
What is truth,is not truth life itself?
What is life,is not life truth?
What is death,is not death truth?
What then is truth?
Truth is real;
Then what is love?
Love has no expectations:
Submitted by Ducky (user info) at 2005-04-20 03:48:45 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
I'm amazed at how much this post made me want to give you a hug. It sounds like right now, you could use some time on your own to figure out what you want. Focus on yourself for a little while. Good luck.
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-04-20 03:35:11 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Good luck with this one.
I wish I had words of sage advice, but I'm just some schmuck feeling his way around in the dark.
Hang in there, and remember that there are no bad people, just bad choices.
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-04-20 03:33:05 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
There is no such thing as infidelity in a long distance relationship.
Submitted by GodChicken (user info) at 2005-04-20 03:28:34 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
maybe you guys just need to get back to basics, try and remember / rediscover what made you interested enough in each other to give the long distance thing a try in the first place.
That, and show each other you still care at all, by investing the time and money into covering that distance to see each other more often.
You're not interested in the others because they still don't do what she does for you, right? To be satisfied again you'll have to stop typecasting them in her role, look for something different than you're used to.
As far as infidelity goes..well, thats a hard mountain to climb. You want to bring a little God into it, a priest once told me forgiveness is divine, and therefore, forgiving each other is a blessing. A big one, really, but only a small reflection of the forgiveness that He gives to us.
Good luck dude.
Submitted by shandythedog (user info) at 2005-04-20 03:21:27 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
what you need is sex with dogs