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This is many things. Gay is not one of them. (765 hits)

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Submitted by Caacodaemus (View user info) at 2005-06-23 18:26:52 EDT


Can someone please explain to me why calling someone/thing "gay" or "ghey" is an insult? It must be considered such, as pretty much any post on ubersite lacking the word CAMWHORE is deemed "gay/ghey."(yes I know its a generalization, I don't need replies with links to prove me wrong) That means that many of you must think it is particularly insulting, alhough why I cannot say.

In fact, I find it confusing that a site like Ubersite, which seems home to some very smart people, has suffered such a moronic pratice to continue. It is simply astounding the most common reply here is "thats gay", "your gay", or my new favorite "xxxxx.isagaylord.com" In fact, a simple search of ubersite for the word gay nets two-hundred results, and ghey get one forty-five. And thats just posts with gay in their name. I'll bet on nearly seventy-five percent of this site, the words gay/ghey makes an appearance.

And it is just disgusting that people do this. Gay is not an insult, gay is a lifestyle choice. It has the same meaning as saying somethings straight, or anything like that. What the hell kind of homophobic git does one have to be to use it in an insulting fashion. So what if someone is gay, thats their choice. And calling someone gay when they're not is far more insulting to the person using the word. They might as well say: "I'm so smart, I buy into an illogical stereotype because I lack the cognitive power to insult people in an accurate, humorous, original, or even basically insulting fashion." If your trying to insult someone like this, at least pick a lifestyle that in and of itself entails negativity; "gangsta" for instance. Try to think about things people. Most of you are, at the very least, marginally intelligent people, you should know this.








Well, go on, call me gay. You know you want to.


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Submitted by COMountain (user info) at 2005-08-04 16:09:38 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Well know that you have your "it's okay to be gay" speech ready, you can go ahead and tell your dad you're gay.

Submitted by checkyourmail (user info) at 2005-08-04 16:05:10 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

your peener is ghey

Submitted by Reaver (user info) at 2005-08-04 15:45:16 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

This post makes me wonder why i even registered on ubersite.
For that matter any website because its the same
everywhere.

Submitted by pandora (user info) at 2005-07-07 02:39:19 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

You're a pretty good alter, but you should try to keep your "inability" to spell/punctuate consistent from post to post. Otherwise, good work.

Submitted by shitfuck (user info) at 2005-07-06 01:00:22 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2


Shut the fuck up.


Submitted by williamson (user info) at 2005-07-04 18:56:16 EDT (#)
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Submitted by TheEvilleprechaun (user info) at 2005-06-24 19:16:51 (#)
Ranking: 2

it isn't an insult, its one of the forms of latent homophobia that is still widely present
-==-===--==-=-==--=

This really pisses me off. I hate the word "Homphobia". Do you thing saying the word "gay" is an expression of my Fear of homos? Fuck off.

Submitted by Lunch_Pail (user info) at 2005-06-25 21:24:06 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

attn ghey menz












































oh yeah this post is gay

Submitted by d_prime (user info) at 2005-06-25 21:13:43 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

People who enjoy being idiots probably are idiots.

Submitted by zakalwe (user info) at 2005-06-25 20:42:52 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

because this is a place of fun. FUN. and so people do silly and stupid things, because they enjoy it.

Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-06-24 23:35:09 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

No Comment

Submitted by TheEvilleprechaun (user info) at 2005-06-24 19:16:51 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

it isn't an insult, its one of the forms of latent homophobia that is still widely present

Submitted by JonnyX (user info) at 2005-06-24 18:52:35 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by Axolotl (user info) at 2005-06-23 21:45:50 (#)
Ranking: 2

ATTN: GHEY MENZ


Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-24 16:49:42 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by MrSparkle847 (user info) at 2005-06-24 00:54:21 (#)
Ranking: 0

Gay is a lifestyle choice.
_____________________________

Wrong. Gay is a sexual orientation. These are determined biologically; there was a study in which fruit flies were found to have a gene that changed their sexual orientation.

But yes, "ghey" is a word that makes me angry. Alternative spellings of words aren't supposed to be longer to spell than the original, and they are certainly not supposed to have useless letters that add nothing to the pronunciation; this makes them look even more retarded. Whoever came up with that should be ganked.

Equally retarded is l33t-sp34k. That I know how to spell it in those terms makes me less of a person, I know, but it makes me angry that it's there.

once again: Had I said that, I would have been deluged with -2 and death threats, like my other posts

Submitted by Squijee (user info) at 2005-06-24 04:52:17 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

There's an arcade that's runs off the main shopping mall in my town called "Gay's Arcade". This is the plaque that adorns its entrance...

http://www.users.bigpond.com/rjstone1/ghey.jpg

3 jokes in 1 plaque! See if you can spot them all!

Submitted by Rasta (user info) at 2005-06-24 04:26:12 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

Absolutely correct. the same thought process can be used for any derogatory term.

Submitted by MrSparkle847 (user info) at 2005-06-24 00:54:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Gay is a lifestyle choice.
_____________________________

Wrong. Gay is a sexual orientation. These are determined biologically; there was a study in which fruit flies were found to have a gene that changed their sexual orientation.

But yes, "ghey" is a word that makes me angry. Alternative spellings of words aren't supposed to be longer to spell than the original, and they are certainly not supposed to have useless letters that add nothing to the pronunciation; this makes them look even more retarded. Whoever came up with that should be ganked.

Equally retarded is l33t-sp34k. That I know how to spell it in those terms makes me less of a person, I know, but it makes me angry that it's there.

Submitted by Axolotl (user info) at 2005-06-23 21:45:50 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

ATTN: GHEY MENZ

Submitted by WellFedEthiopian (user info) at 2005-06-23 21:28:43 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1

Complete faggotry.

Submitted by Nancypants (user info) at 2005-06-23 20:40:53 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

No Comment

Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-06-23 20:09:33 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

this is gangsta

Submitted by swamp_donkey (user info) at 2005-06-23 20:05:30 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

THIS IS SO FUCKING GAY!!







STAY AWAY FROM ME YOU FAGGOT!






Unless that's you sucking my cock, then you may continue.












Submitted by PokeyPecker (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:59:07 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

But.....
































I didn't call you Gay! Or even Ghey!


























You fag.

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:44:14 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

oh. okay. Thank you ubersite, that makes three things youve taught me today

Submitted by notyou (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:42:12 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

hold down 1 while you are making your exclamation points, accidently let go of shift...

it becomes !!!11

then add oneone for humor purposes, laugh til you cry

Submitted by Deidra (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:26:46 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

You're gay!

At least.. you seem pretty happy to me...?

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:26:20 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by Yes (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:12:29 (#)
Ranking: 0

pffft, u R teh str8!!!11!!!one1!

can anyone interpret for me.
I got pfft, you are straight....

but

what the hell does this mean?
!!!11!!!one1!


Submitted by Yes (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:12:29 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

pffft, u R teh str8!!!11!!!one1!

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:11:25 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by PokeyPecker (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:07:02 (#)
Ranking: 0

You fag.

and again. astounding

Submitted by PokeyPecker (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:07:02 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

You fag.

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:06:50 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by NumLock (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:04:21 (#)
Ranking: -1

QUEER


Somehow, somewhere, and angel just cut its head off. Thanks for perfectly illustrating my point, couldn'ta done it any better myself.

Submitted by NumLock (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:04:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1

QUEER

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 19:02:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I guess I could see the satire coming from some people, but, not when they say "ur post is teh ghey", or are flaming you on the morrowind forums because you pointed out a mistake/misconception.

I'm glad to know that at least some of the people whom use ghey arent a needless drain on oxygen though.

Submitted by Girlwithaclue (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:59:57 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Its just one of those little things you gotta love about ubersite.

I don't believe anyone actually cares what your sexual orientation is around here.

Submitted by darko (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:57:51 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Personally I always thought ghey was a satire on gay, and that it is used in your 50% less literate way in order to further play the stereotype.

Submitted by Spooner (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:57:47 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

It's a subtle difference, but it's there man. darko's right.

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:55:39 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

it is? really? I have only ever seen it used in the exact same manner as gay, except 50% less literate.

Submitted by darko (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:51:33 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

The guys call eachother gay in hopes that it's true and maybe they can get their cock sucked by said gay person.

Ghey on the otherhand is just hillarious. It's a play on the homophobic nature of gay.

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:45:40 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Sorry, but I thought it would cause more pointless arguing if I said it was in any way genetic. I really get tired of being told to go and die in a fire.
Submitted by Zoidberg (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:37:11 (#)
Ranking: 0

dunno where you get off calling it a "choice"

I sure don't remember checking yes in the "do you want to be a cocksucker" column when I was a kid

Submitted by Caacodaemus (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:42:12 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Hey, wait. I'm not insulted, just confused. Althought that is a better question... thanks

Submitted by Technoboy (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:42:00 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

It's NOT FUCKING NORMAL. I was never confused.......

Submitted by Snark (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:40:40 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

Please let me be the first to say:

Y halo thar buttsecks!!1!

Submitted by stevie_says (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:38:45 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I use gay in my vocabulary A LOT. 'That's gay' 'What a fag' 'That's homo-gay' 'What a fucking faggot'...etc.

However, I've had to cool that talk at work, as I work with two lesbians who had told me NUMEROUS times that gay is not slang for 'bad.'

Frankly, I use the words so much they've lost meaning. Just like the word cunt. I was on this rant in the Ikea the other day about how much I hated this 'cunty table' and there were children standing right next to me.

'Ass' and 'damn' used to be taboo for television, now you hear them everywhere. It's just the way shit goes.

Submitted by Zoidberg (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:37:11 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

dunno where you get off calling it a "choice"

I sure don't remember checking yes in the "do you want to be a cocksucker" column when I was a kid

Submitted by Draqus (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:35:33 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

The point is not "why is it insulting?" but "why are people insulted by it?", because insulted they invariably are.

Time for you to learn, grasshopper.

Submitted by freebie (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:34:18 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

"Most of you are, at least, marginally intelligent peolpe".

You must be new here.

Submitted by notyou (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:32:23 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

You're straight.

Submitted by Kazzerax (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:31:15 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

It was worth reading, but nothing more.

Submitted by Spooner (user info) at 2005-06-23 18:31:08 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1

Agreed, but this post still sucks.


Bart: So, like sometimes you can do stuff that you think is pretty bad
so other kids will like you better?

Homer: You're not talking about killing anyone, are you?

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