Help me, I need to know why men look at porn... (1512 hits)
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Submitted by your_arse_is_hanging_out (View user info) at 2005-07-07 17:34:58 EDT
Ok, I need help in the next 20 minutes...
I like porn. But I don't look at it once a week or 3 times a week for that matter.
When you are in a serious relationship with a sexy ass woman, and you sex life is great---why do you need to look at porn?
Is 3 times a week an addiction? Where is that line?
I don't care that he looks, but I want to know why. And am I not enough for him?
Help me....I have to deal with him soon....
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Submitted by Insanethemind (user info) at 2005-09-27 17:21:01 EDT (#)
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what are you, 12?
men like pussy, period! old pussy, fine (thats you) but new pussy is much more interesting
Submitted by Foonbo (user info) at 2005-07-12 20:44:32 EDT (#)
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We love naked women and watching them get fucked. What is so hard to grasp about this, ladies?
Submitted by Ingsoc (user info) at 2005-07-12 00:39:18 EDT (#)
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This garbage doesn't deserve a response.
Oh, shit.
Submitted by Deidra (user info) at 2005-07-12 00:19:19 EDT (#)
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Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-11 12:05:47 (#)
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Stupid me to post this on Ubersite. Where one and all are internet dumbasses that jack off to porn 24/7. I'll have you know that in REAL LIFE you all are pathetic and sickening, and it's a wonder that even some of you have significant others. Go look at barely 18 naked girls, hot young milfs and big black male dicks and have a good old time you sick perverted outcasts. Oh, but you're really not outcasts because now the sick perverted outcasts have banded together and made Ubersite.
....Grosss!
I love this site....
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You actually got some pretty good advice in there.
Submitted by Unabonger (user info) at 2005-07-11 12:31:18 EDT (#)
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but you're still a fucking idiot.
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-11 12:05:47 EDT (#)
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Stupid me to post this on Ubersite. Where one and all are internet dumbasses that jack off to porn 24/7. I'll have you know that in REAL LIFE you all are pathetic and sickening, and it's a wonder that even some of you have significant others. Go look at barely 18 naked girls, hot young milfs and big black male dicks and have a good old time you sick perverted outcasts. Oh, but you're really not outcasts because now the sick perverted outcasts have banded together and made Ubersite.
....Grosss!
I love this site....
Submitted by Circe (user info) at 2005-07-08 23:57:46 EDT (#)
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Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:39:12 (#)
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He lied about it at first, but I sneakily looked at our computer's history.
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You have no business being in a relationship. Guys watch porn. Women buy shoes. Bird gotta fly, fish gotta swim. If it didn't take us 20 minutes to flick the bean, we'd watch a lot MORE porn and masturbate with alarming frequency, but we're built differently.
And how dare you "sneakily" check anything he's doing? If I was in a relationship with a snivelling ball of insecurity like you, I'd lie my ass off too.
Submitted by Unabonger (user info) at 2005-07-08 23:51:36 EDT (#)
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" It's really not the issue of me being insecure about my body or his attraction to me--that is more than fine. The lying was the issue and this post was just about why men look at it.
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the issue isn't about lying. you're full of shit.
you should let him donkey punch you...
Submitted by Viciousriffs (user info) at 2005-07-08 23:27:04 EDT (#)
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I'm taken aback.
People actually ask these questions? There is actually THIS much sexual ignorance among adults?
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-08 12:44:23 EDT (#)
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Youre a genius DCWoody!
+2 for me because it's Friday
Submitted by DCWoody (user info) at 2005-07-08 12:15:42 EDT (#)
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Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-08 11:04:48 (#)
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All you Ubers are not seeing the point. I like porn too. We do watch it together occasionally. It is hot, every time I watch it I get very turned on--I am not a porn hater. My sex drive is flaring right now--we have sex at least 4 times a week...or more. It's really not the issue of me being insecure about my body or his attraction to me--that is more than fine. The lying was the issue and this post was just about why men look at it.
The visual stimulation, I am like a guy that way. Some women don't get turned on by watching porn--opposite of me. He has everything he could possibly want sexually from me. Yet the male primal instinct is to look at pornography? If that is the case...Hallelujah! ...that's the case....right?
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You like porn he likes porn...good for you.
If you're really worried you might want to think about the fact that he watches porn the exact amount of days you don't shag him.
Of course shagging him more won't stop him, he'll just get sore.
Submitted by DCWoody (user info) at 2005-07-08 12:12:26 EDT (#)
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He watches porn.
Only 3 times a week.
It doesn't make you feel insecure.
so the problem is?
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-08 11:04:48 EDT (#)
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All you Ubers are not seeing the point. I like porn too. We do watch it together occasionally. It is hot, every time I watch it I get very turned on--I am not a porn hater. My sex drive is flaring right now--we have sex at least 4 times a week...or more. It's really not the issue of me being insecure about my body or his attraction to me--that is more than fine. The lying was the issue and this post was just about why men look at it.
The visual stimulation, I am like a guy that way. Some women don't get turned on by watching porn--opposite of me. He has everything he could possibly want sexually from me. Yet the male primal instinct is to look at pornography? If that is the case...Hallelujah! ...that's the case....right?
Submitted by CaptainThorns (user info) at 2005-07-08 08:22:49 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Siren (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:52:03 (#)
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I mean, I understand if a girl is a prude, but not if she's like me.
I like sex. I want to have it all the time. I want to have it right now. I want sex 30 seconds after I've just finished having sex. When I'm having sex, I wish for 15 more vaginas so that I can have even more sex. Ya dig? And I'm open to new things... I just don't know how porn fulfills something in a man that I can't.
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OUTSTANDING! *stands up, claps, and cheers*
Siren has the qualities that every man wants in a woman.
Submitted by tuesdaydelay (user info) at 2005-07-08 07:58:39 EDT (#)
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Retard.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2005-07-08 07:57:27 EDT (#)
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Would I be right in thinking that your a little insecure with this relationship? If you love the guy then just learn to enjoy his body, spend some time just toying with his penis. Familiarise yourself with it's mass and weight, the texture of the foreskin and scrotum against your cheeck. Ask him to experiment and touch you and just idle away a weekend lying in bed licking one another.
Cherish one another whilst your relationship lasts.
Submitted by UrbaneMischief (user info) at 2005-07-08 07:36:25 EDT (#)
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because it's pretty damn hot.
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2005-07-08 06:24:52 EDT (#)
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Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww..........
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2005-07-08 06:24:30 EDT (#)
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pRon is wrong. Say 3 hail mary's and turn 60 degrees infinity which will negate the 20 minutes that you have to see him in. Count yourself lucky that Cookie didn't suggest a smut club or Williamson would have mailed you some attn ghey menz stuff.
Submitted by Bellebrown (user info) at 2005-07-08 06:23:19 EDT (#)
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God.
Submitted by supadupapupa (user info) at 2005-07-08 06:00:17 EDT (#)
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My wife watches porn with me all the time. It gives us a little extra kick-start...
Submitted by Chazzy (user info) at 2005-07-08 05:32:50 EDT (#)
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would a guy not get pissed off tho if he came home to find his girlfriend masturbating to a video of a guy wanking? coz im just wondering how a guy would feel in that situation.. tho im sure theyd b more than happy to take over.. but hey..
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:59:32 EDT (#)
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Siren is teh awesome.
and teh horny.
Submitted by forensicgirl3 (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:55:25 EDT (#)
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When I'm having sex, I wish for 15 more vaginas so that I can have even more sex.
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BWAHAHAHAHA!
15 vaginas
15 vaginas
awesomeness!
Submitted by Siren (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:52:03 EDT (#)
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I mean, I understand if a girl is a prude, but not if she's like me.
I like sex. I want to have it all the time. I want to have it right now. I want sex 30 seconds after I've just finished having sex. When I'm having sex, I wish for 15 more vaginas so that I can have even more sex. Ya dig? And I'm open to new things... I just don't know how porn fulfills something in a man that I can't.
Submitted by NetProphet (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:51:49 EDT (#)
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Seriously, I thought it was a dude who liked to dress like a chick.
http://faculty.washington.edu/qtaylor/images/Oprah_Winfrey.jpg
http://www.soulofamerica.com/images/photosmd/baltimore4/Oprah_t.jpg
Aerosmith, anyone?
Submitted by NetProphet (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:49:46 EDT (#)
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Submitted by icepigs (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:29 (#)
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All men look at porn. It has nothing to do with you.
Why do all women watch Oprah? And that other chick - Dr. Phil?
Porn is more fun and we get to beat off!
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Oprah's a chick?
Submitted by missflibble (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:39:32 EDT (#)
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you are enough, porn is ajust a fun suppliment.
and it's not just men that use it.
are you really so insecure? don't be!
Submitted by supadupapupa (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:19:42 EDT (#)
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It may be insulting to your woman indeed, but being in a long term relationship and not cheating requires masturbation to porn sometimes. Wanna keep your guy honest? Porno does the trick. Wanna fight the war on terror? Send porno to the terrorists, they won't have time to plan bombings.
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:06:59 EDT (#)
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i had plenty of imagination prior to discovering pr0n
Submitted by apollo88 (user info) at 2005-07-08 04:06:22 EDT (#)
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because it stops me raping children as much as I used to.
Submitted by Siren (user info) at 2005-07-08 03:50:34 EDT (#)
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I have to make a comment here. I don't care if this is an alter or not. I think you should talk about it if it makes you uncomfortable. I'm a girlfriend who does not like my man to look at porn. While I don't nag, I let him know I don't like it. Cool Girlfriend? I'm not sure. But he thinks it's cute that I get a little jealous. And that's exactly it. I've accepted that I'm a woman and I don't understand why men need additional orgasm material other than their girlfriends.
And gentlemen, it's a "guy thing..." FINE. But be a little sensitive about it if you have a disapproving girlfriend. You should understand that you are jerking off to another woman and to your girlfriend/ wife, it may hurt her feelings.
Besides, most women I know don't need to look at porno to get off by themselves. I think men are just unimaginative.
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-07-08 03:35:34 EDT (#)
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whats porn?
Submitted by forensicgirl3 (user info) at 2005-07-08 03:15:12 EDT (#)
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Actually, I'd be worried about him if he DIDN'T watch porn.
Submitted by jack0173 (user info) at 2005-07-08 03:06:21 EDT (#)
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Submitted by littledan (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:22:59 (#)
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3 times a week?? that's it? He might be almost gay, find a new man.
Submitted by Rasta (user info) at 2005-07-08 02:28:17 EDT (#)
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I have one sure fire way to get your boyfriend to leave porn alone for the rest of his life.
Give him a blowjob everytime he asks for it without any hesitation.
This is the only way to stop him from pleasing himself whenever he has the urge.
Submitted by CaptainThorns (user info) at 2005-07-07 23:35:02 EDT (#)
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An addiction is when the porn is more gratifying and stimulating to him sexually than a flesh-and-blood human.
Submitted by Xcuses (user info) at 2005-07-07 23:26:15 EDT (#)
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Refreshing Lisa has spoken
Submitted by Lisa (user info) at 2005-07-07 20:00:22 EDT (#)
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Are you serious? I can't stand women like you. And women unlike you, but really. Men make much more testosterone, their sex drives are naturally higher, for the most part. You've got to make up for that inequity somehow; better porn than another woman. I'm not sure if I used "inequity" right. Women should work harder at being less annoying.
Submitted by Unabonger (user info) at 2005-07-07 19:50:39 EDT (#)
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whacking off and having sex are two completely different needs. they are seperate entities altogether. both need to be fulfilled and satisfied. having a girlfriend helps for the sex need and having porn is helpful for the whacking off. women shouldn't even associate men masturbating and our sex drive. i flog my bishop 78 times a day and my sex drive is strong enough to bring my fiance out of a coma. just so long as he's still slipping you the hot beef injection, what's your worries?
and i don't believe you are only pissed because he lied. you're pissed he was touching himself and looking at other women. i don't care what you tell us or him, that's the god damned truth. it may irk you a bit that he lied but it's expected. men have always been made fun of at school for popping boners and whacking off. it's only natural that a grown man has been keeping his helment shining all to himself. he'll lie until he's been busted.
...and I'd be super-fucking-pissed that you checked his history. mind your own business. like you don't let the faucet in the shower please you every now and then...
Submitted by Sphagnum (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:54:56 EDT (#)
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Submitted by kaos-king (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:09:41 (#)
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3 times a week is NOT an addiction. That's called a hobby...
I'd call it "browsing"
Submitted by Deidra (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:26:10 EDT (#)
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Sounds healthy enough to me. All except for the lying part. Especially if he knows you're okay with him looking at porn, he shouldn't lie.
If you want to feel really good about his porn collection.. become part of it. Find a tripod to tape yourself, or take pictures of yourself or a trusted friend to help.
Don't stress about it. And ignore all these dorks. It's natural to wonder why he'd need to watch porn when he has everything he could want.
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:23:18 EDT (#)
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AND YOUR TEETH PROBABLY TURN HIM OFF
Submitted by littledan (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:22:59 EDT (#)
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3 times a week?? that's it? He might be almost gay, find a new man.
Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:22:38 EDT (#)
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GROW UP YOUNG LADY
OR BECOME A LESBIAN
AND QUIT HAVING THE SKY FALL EVERY TIME YOU STUB YOUR TOE
Submitted by kai070169 (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:21:58 EDT (#)
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"And am I not enough for him?"
Probably not. That's not an insult, just a fact of nature.
Submitted by Rainer (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:19:51 EDT (#)
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This is the result of that stupid Lifetime movie "Cyber Seduction".
Lifetime is retarded, and so are women who think man's primal instincts are wrong.
Submitted by zakalwe (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:10:50 EDT (#)
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ta-da
Submitted by zakalwe (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:10:42 EDT (#)
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and guys have dicks
Submitted by kaos-king (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:09:41 EDT (#)
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3 times a week is NOT an addiction. That's called a hobby...
Submitted by Xcuses (user info) at 2005-07-07 18:00:01 EDT (#)
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My professional diagnosis is this:
If your sex life is healthy and happy, don't worry so much about the other stuff. If you think it's a problem, address it.
I once dated a girl who wasn't up to my USUAL standards. I used to want to watch porn with her so I could get worked up. Doesn't neccisarily sound like your problem but not sure.
Last thing. If indeed you are hot, I would dump him immediately, and fly to see me
That is all!
Good luck
Submitted by Yes (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:57:10 EDT (#)
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porn addiction i'd say would be watching more than an hour a day 7 days a week all year.
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:54:58 EDT (#)
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5'8 young, 148 lbs., blue/green eyes, full lips, medium length blonde hair....
I am not insecure at all about my body. It's more about if he is a porn "addict" and if I don't measure up---fogetaboudit.
I've been burned into second guessing by my godmother's best friend's marriage ending in divorce over her husband's porn addiction...
Submitted by Axtumanu (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:54:21 EDT (#)
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Men look at porn becuase they are wired to look for sex. Just from a survival perspective, there is a greater chance of you passing on your genetic material if you have lotsa sex, with different women. Porn and jacking off to it are just the modern day way for guys to satisfy this primal urge, by looking and fantasizing about other women. It has nothign to do with his feelings for you at all. Porn and that sex and anything to do with affection and love are not really related.
Submitted by swamp_donkey (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:54:01 EDT (#)
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No matter how good it is, you still want more and/or different. You want to keep him? Become a swinger.
Submitted by Yes (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:53:45 EDT (#)
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wacking off is fun. that's it. its like watching tv or playing yatzee or whatever it is you kids do nowadays. he probably hid it because he thought you'd give him shit for it. that's all. if you really are okay with it tell him so, and tell him to wack away... or he'll hate you. (unless he's wacking it to gay porn, then you beter start shopping for a new man.)
Submitted by Jack_McCallum (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:53:22 EDT (#)
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Submitted by c1ndy (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:36:30 (#)
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same reason they watch football and scratch their bollocks all the time
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This reply deserves a +2.
Submitted by Slovin (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:52:16 EDT (#)
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Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:39:12 (#)
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He lied about it at first, but I sneakily looked at our computer's history. And he fessed.
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Wow. Not even going to comment. I would've dumped you.
Submitted by Xcuses (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:50:59 EDT (#)
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describe yourself...
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:49:03 EDT (#)
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let him whack all he wants...if you chastise him for it he'll cheat on you.
matter of fact, if you want to get him happy, whack off with him.
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I don't chastise him for it. I got pissed when he hid it from me--because he lied. Not because of the porn. He doesn't get that. We have whacked off together, Tuesday night actually. Twas a fun time.
Submitted by Unabonger (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:45:34 EDT (#)
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let him whack all he wants...if you chastise him for it he'll cheat on you.
matter of fact, if you want to get him happy, whack off with him.
don't feel bad about yourself...it doesn't matter what our girlfriends/wives look like. we will whack off and watch porn.
and there's no such thing as too much unless he stops sleeping with you. once he does that, you need to say something.
Submitted by Xcuses (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:43:59 EDT (#)
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OK, until I see what you look like, I can't really answer why he has this obsession.
Submitted by JonnyX (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:43:44 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Jeanneee (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:38 (#)
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It has nothing to do with you. If you take it personally, you're a dumb cunt. If you give him shit about it, you're a bitch too.
Hopefully this is shenanigans.
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Jeanneee's right on the mark here, dear - if you want to be a Cool Girlfriend®, you'd forget all about it.
Submitted by Snypavat (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:43:11 EDT (#)
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here.. http://www.ubersite.com/m/22242
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:41:01 EDT (#)
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He just looks at naked broads, and lesbians--nothing like kids, or animals, or men..
Submitted by forensicgirl3 (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:40:36 EDT (#)
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Men are visual creatures. We are too, but they're reallllly visually orientated.
Submitted by morontian (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:40:27 EDT (#)
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Don't worry about it...or you'll drive him to porn.
Submitted by Papajoe (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:40:05 EDT (#)
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Seriously, unless he can't get it up because he looks at too much porn, don't let it bother you.
Its just a guy thing.
Submitted by Dino (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:39:50 EDT (#)
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Because it's there!
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:39:12 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Xcuses (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:14 (#)
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I would say that if your man is in HEAT for porn, you're in trouble OR maybe he wants to get you in the mood to videotape your love making...
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He lied about it at first, but I sneakily looked at our computer's history. And he fessed. We watch them together sometimes, I don't care. But Why? Why am I not enough naked woman? I'm naked all the time?
Submitted by jimthefiend (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:38:00 EDT (#)
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What kind of porn? Be specific.
Submitted by Jeanneee (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:38 EDT (#)
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It has nothing to do with you. If you take it personally, you're a dumb cunt. If you give him shit about it, you're a bitch too.
Hopefully this is shenanigans.
Submitted by kissmyarse (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:34 EDT (#)
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I have tits...
Submitted by icepigs (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:29 EDT (#)
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All men look at porn. It has nothing to do with you.
Why do all women watch Oprah? And that other chick - Dr. Phil?
Porn is more fun and we get to beat off!
Submitted by Xcuses (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:14 EDT (#)
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I would say that if your man is in HEAT for porn, you're in trouble OR maybe he wants to get you in the mood to videotape your love making...
Submitted by zakalwe (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:37:10 EDT (#)
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it's because women have tits
Submitted by c1ndy (user info) at 2005-07-07 17:36:30 EDT (#)
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same reason they watch football and scratch their bollocks all the time