Venting (249 hits)
Category: RomanceRating: -0.75 on 4 reviews (Rate this item) (V)
Submitted by greg wood <woodgt.at.gmail.com> (View user info) at 2005-07-23 12:28:08 EDT
Some times things just don't work out the way you want them to. However things happen for a reason. Even if you know that, it never seems to numb the pain.
I have caught my self saying multiple times, love is simple and based off of compatibility and convenience.
I guess it there is one small factor I ignored, that is love itself. The attachment you get to someone is an unseen bond linking the two of you together. When you know what she is thinking or you know what she is going to do. It's like an unseen forcing linking you together with the person. And when that is gone, you feel an emptiness that is irreplaceable.
I was not with the girl long enough to experience enough of this closeness, but from what I did have; I do know that I would have enjoyed loving her and caring for her, go on the adventures and the hard times side by side.
There of course is a small chance that we could remain together through the hard times of separation and achieve a true love, get married and all that other fantasy bull shit, however, my luck as always fallen short, and with someone as young as her, feelings change and people move on.
I used to love the excitement of dating new women all the time, however now I am tired of relationships, they all seem to have dead ends visible before it even becomes something worth keeping. I feel like I will never find true happiness in general, unless I give up standards and take what ever desperate woman wants a relationship. I don't need that.
Maybe I can turn away from looking for relationships and forget about it all for a while; I know I could invest my time into things more useful. However, with my helpless romantic heart it kind of destroys the logic I try to have.
I think too much ya know. Maybe I should smoke, get drunk and forget.
Many people must have experienced the same situation, and I have given plenty advice to people about this, but when things happen to you, everything seems to look different..
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Submitted by checkyourmail (user info) at 2005-07-24 00:58:30 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
3 posts = -2die
Submitted by Unabonger (user info) at 2005-07-23 17:53:27 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
ok 3 posts in one day is enough for me... -2DIE
Submitted by Pentameter (user info) at 2005-07-23 14:23:01 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
"I used to love the excitement of dating new women all the time, however now I am tired of relationships, they all seem to have dead ends visible before it even becomes something worth keeping."
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If the relationship is over before it even begins, how do you think it could ever survive?
Sometimes you need to go with the flow to see what happens. A lot of times, expectations are the things that ruin our relationships. Sometimes you need to be with someone without expectations. You're probably expecting too much, and this is why it seems like you can never get anywhere.
The roadblocks you have are your own. You put them there. Get rid of them and try again.
Submitted by COMountain (user info) at 2005-07-23 12:39:46 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
What's that thing they say... something about the hardest brain cells to kill are those attached to memory. Just remember, break-ups are always feel the worst right after they happen.