breaking up (528 hits)
Category: RomanceRating: 0.25 on 8 reviews (Rate this item) (V)
Submitted by greg wood <woodgt.at.gmail.com> (View user info) at 2005-07-23 13:56:38 EDT
I had an a discussion with a girl who was new in the relationship world,
"Why do relationships fall apart and why are there so many divorces?"
Secondly, "Is it increasing in failed relationships now than before?"
A couple of beers and shots later, I went out and smoked a cigarette and had an epiphany.
Break ups happen for one reason, people give up, but before I explain that fact, why they lead to this is more important.
You meet that girl, spend money on her and fuck her then tell her you love her.
She loves you back and puts out whenever now that its "love" things are good, sex is good, she's still hot and life moves on.
Then a steaming turd fresh out of the fat lady's ass is flung by over zealous monkeys in a cage staring at you as if you are the one that looks like a retard, that turd hit the fan.
All that hard work on the dates, the small things like opening the door, sweet talks on the phone, and sacrificing time to be with each other just falls apart. Fuck that I want to go have a beer and play poker, maybe go to the bar or jerk around with the playstation.
Sex? I am sorry I just wanna sleep, you never knew what you were doing anyway, or maybe you just got lazy. Dead people put more spunk into it.
You know that laugh really annoys me, I would rather listen to nails on the chalkboard hooked to an amplifier blast into my ears, while random chismas carols of retarded people are sung behind me.
So sex, love and little things all disappear because you don't take the effort to make it work anymore. And all the things you accepted because you loved her left just her just like the French every time someone starts shit.
I guess its easy to have fun at the start of a relationship, but when things are not perfect people think its not worth keeping, fuck working it out, time to move on. If you try to put more into it through the relationship then it will work, but if not, you will give up, cheat on her, beat her, leave her whatever. In the end you either give up, or give it everything they got like a fat person going for the last twinke in seven eleven.
Or a star wars fan waiting for that lame ass movie.
But yeah, don't give up if you love the person. Compromise and growing together is what matters. Don't stop the small things, and don't fuck other people.
If you can't do it, then you are not with the right person...
Blah blah blah
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Submitted by checkyourmail (user info) at 2005-07-24 00:56:24 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
"good point, poorly written"
that's what I was gonna say, until I was informed by Unabonger that this was your third post today
piss off you fucking hoser
Submitted by NintendoCzar (user info) at 2005-07-23 23:52:01 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
But yeah, don't give up if you love the person. Compromise and growing together is what matters. Don't stop the small things, and don't fuck other people.
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do me a favor: call my ex, tell her that, and then see how much this relaly helps.
All kidding aside, good points we all know but never act upon.
Submitted by Xcuses (user info) at 2005-07-23 21:46:39 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
I love my remote control and beer fridge...
Submitted by Girlwithaclue (user info) at 2005-07-23 21:22:13 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
It's the little things that make and break every relationship.
Communication is the key and is something that is essential in every good relationship.
Without forgiveness there would not be love....
Submitted by Spuds002 (user info) at 2005-07-23 18:16:48 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
Greg wood... I know a greg wood
Submitted by Unabonger (user info) at 2005-07-23 17:52:40 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
ok 3 posts in one day is enough for me... -2DIE
Submitted by Maddog (user info) at 2005-07-23 17:20:52 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
The older you get, the more you realize that you shouldn't change WHO you are for ANYONE but that you can forgive the "little shit".
Submitted by Pentameter (user info) at 2005-07-23 14:23:59 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
You're pretty much right on with this.
The little things matter much more than people realize.
Also, if you post more than once a day, you knock your first post off of the front page.