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Uberpoll: Hatred amongst females (3811 hits)

Category: Romance

Rating: -0.14 on 148 reviews (Rate this item) (V)
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Submitted by Ashlee (View user info) at 2005-08-29 13:16:30 EDT


A few months ago, I had a job waiting tables at a local restaurant. The girl who trained me, Anna, was a total sweetheart for the first few days, but all of a sudden she started acting really bitchy towards me. I never understood why, and I pretty much forgot all about it, since I stopped working there a short time later.

Last night, I was on my way to a party when I ran into an old boyfriend. He invited me to grab a drink with him, so I hopped into his BMW (I broke up with him because of his total lack of ambition in life. Back then he lived with his parents and rode a bike to work. Now he owns a successful construction company and drives a Beemer. Yep, I'm kicking myself over that one.) and we headed to a nearby bar. We reminisced, we flirted, we caught up with what had happened in each other's lives in the last year and a half.

During the conversation, he told me he heard I had worked at the aforementioned local restaurant. When I asked how he knew, he said he had found out from his girlfriend at the time. Anna. Apparently, he spoke of me from time to time, and I had mentioned him once during conversation with Anna and another girl working there. She put the details of what he said together with what I said, made the connection, and asked him about it. He told me she had muttered something about running me off from the job and left his house in a huff.

Now, I don't understand why the fact that I dated this guy would cause her to dislike me. We were getting along fine before she found out, even becoming friends. I highly doubt it was due to anything nasty he might have said about me, because we parted amicably and remained friendly for awhile before I moved to Jacksonville. The relationship was far from serious in the first place. There's no bad blood between us and he's never been the type to talk shit.

I've noticed this trend in a lot of the women I know. They automatically hate any and all females who have had any kind of romantic interaction with the guy they're currently dating. It doesn't make sense to me at all; I've never had a problem with a guy's ex unless she's done something to personally wrong me.

So what's up with that? Why does the fact that Girl A went out with Girl B's boyfriend ages before Girl B even met him automatically make Girl A a bitch? Is this normal? Am I missing something? Ladies, do you hate all of your man's exes? Why? Do your ex's new girlfriends hate you, that you know of? Men, does your current squeeze inexplicably despise any other women you've dated?

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Submitted by ArnieGeddon (user info) at 2006-09-16 16:43:01 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I..I..I-I... don't have a current squeeze..

*cries emo*


As for the rest of it you should just ask Spooner.

Submitted by Anansie (user info) at 2006-09-16 16:03:12 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

"So what's up with that? Why does the fact that Girl A went out with Girl B's boyfriend ages before Girl B even met him automatically make Girl A a bitch?"


Yeah, what the fuck is up with that? I've lost a couple of male friends because of their unreasonable girlfriends. Oh well. Women are fucking overdramatic bitches in general. I guess that's why I only have two really good female friends. Too many of them have turned out to be psychotic crybabies.

Submitted by ooQueso (user info) at 2006-09-16 15:26:01 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Wow.... This just... Nevermind. Enjoy your cupcake dinner!

Submitted by ArcEld (user info) at 2006-07-05 18:01:51 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

Orson the pig. Heh.

Submitted by Dane1901 (user info) at 2006-04-05 15:41:56 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

You are one of those fat chicks that actually think they're desirable to men. HAHAH. I bet you wear belly shirts that show off your wide body too. Put down that donut, whore.

Submitted by retrospect (user info) at 2006-04-05 15:01:05 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

i love women

Submitted by The_Cyst_Master (user info) at 2006-04-05 15:00:24 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

My feces have no feelings. It sits quietly on the kitchen floor and waits for me to come home evry night so we can make fucks.


So...no?

Submitted by Dane1901 (user info) at 2006-04-05 14:45:29 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1

P.S. Can I get fries with that Ashlee? You mule-faced waitressing whore. Haven't you fucked enough NASCAR fans to find a father figure yet?

Submitted by Sphagnum (user info) at 2006-04-05 14:33:39 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

Dumb whore

Submitted by Dane1901 (user info) at 2006-04-05 14:27:19 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

Dear Ashlee,

It is very hard to find food over here, please stop eating it all.

Sincerely,
Africa

Submitted by inion_de_trua (user info) at 2006-02-21 15:26:29 EST (#)
Ranking: -2

WHY IS THIS STILL GOING

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2006-02-21 15:19:06 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

Ha, Not so much really for the last few months... Funny we checked back so close to the same time, heh.

Submitted by Franger (user info) at 2006-02-20 04:33:34 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Hooray! Ashlee is still here! Have a +2 for old arguments sake.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2006-02-02 20:02:35 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

I've been busy, buddy. I'm currently starting my own business, learning to blow glass, and spending time with my dying grandmother, not to mention devoting time to my boyfriend and his daughter... Not a lot of free time on my hands, you know?

Submitted by JonnyX (user info) at 2006-01-31 15:32:50 EST (#)
Ranking: 1

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2006-01-29 19:10:14 (#)
Ranking: 0

Well, since this got dug back up, I'll just throw in here that I'm dating someone new and his ex girlfriend is one of my really close friends, so I care less now...


Oh and strider? You're pathetic. I don't know what this grudge is all about, or why you felt the need to dig up a three month old post to talk shit, but seriously dude... I haven't really even been active here for months.
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why is that?

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2006-01-29 19:10:14 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

Well, since this got dug back up, I'll just throw in here that I'm dating someone new and his ex girlfriend is one of my really close friends, so I care less now...


Oh and strider? You're pathetic. I don't know what this grudge is all about, or why you felt the need to dig up a three month old post to talk shit, but seriously dude... I haven't really even been active here for months. Seek help.

Submitted by Hilarity_Ensues (user info) at 2006-01-26 15:21:53 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

I don't hate any of my current b.f.'s ex's or any of my ex's ex's, unless of course they act like a bitch to me. I'm of the thought that I'm lucky they couldn't hold onto my b.f. because now he's MINE, ALL MINE. BWAHHHHHHHHHHH. Oops, sorry *twiddles thumbs, looks around*.... no, I'm not jealous, not jealous at all.

Submitted by Astropath (user info) at 2006-01-26 14:33:35 EST (#)
Ranking: -1

Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?
=============================

You read my mind, buddy.

Submitted by strider (user info) at 2006-01-26 14:27:55 EST (#)
Ranking: -2

Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 (#)
Ranking: -2

Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?

___

Don't you wait tables, smoke weed and do coke? So your real problem is him living in his parents basement? Maybe if somebody was paying him alimony he could move out.

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PWNED

Submitted by joedaddy (user info) at 2005-11-23 01:26:57 EST (#)
Ranking: 2

Submitted by jack11058 (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:56:25 (#)
Ranking: 0

i dunno, for the same reason my girl gets mad at me for something i did in her dreams?
********************
i don't feel so alone anymore

<Damnbulletdropsoutofbarrelagain>



Submitted by PizzaEagle (user info) at 2005-11-18 21:08:14 EST (#)
Ranking: -2

Repeat after me:

I AM A STUPID WHORE.
NOBODY CARES ABOUT MY STUPID STORIES.
I WILL STOP POSTING THIS SHIT AND ANNOYING PIZZAEAGLE.

Submitted by domenad (user info) at 2005-11-06 17:30:33 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

My very first post addressed this.

Sorry i haven't been answering your IMs, you always log off before I can get back to my machine!

Submitted by apollo88 (user info) at 2005-11-06 16:54:02 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

how's tricks chick?

apollo88.at.gmail.com

Submitted by Whiplash (user info) at 2005-10-31 21:34:46 EST (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2005-10-03 20:46:15 (#)
Ranking: -2

Jesus, this is shit.

On an unrelated note, I have TWO Beamers. Wanna fuck me?
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I hate Shlongy so god damn much.

Submitted by ThatOneGirl (user info) at 2005-10-04 23:11:13 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

It's jealousy. I'll admit, I have some of it too, even when I don't know the girl. Just the fact that someone else had your guy first is kind of irritating in an awful, petty way.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-10-03 22:46:20 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Hey Shlongy, I thought you thought I was ugly?



Submitted by Bubba2341 (user info) at 2005-10-03 21:07:08 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

My God, I agree with Schlongy! Women worry about the stupidest things,
like money, cars, etc. Get over it.


Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2005-10-03 20:46:15 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

Jesus, this is shit.

On an unrelated note, I have TWO Beamers. Wanna fuck me?

Submitted by rad1101 (user info) at 2005-09-11 02:51:07 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

YAY for what?

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-09-10 23:45:20 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

YAY!

Submitted by Chinaski (user info) at 2005-09-10 23:35:36 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1

Submitted by Rawrg (user info) at 2005-08-31 01:58:53 (#)
Ranking: -2

No Comment


Submitted by Genko (user info) at 2005-09-10 23:27:23 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

http://www.ubersite.com/m/73641#1540424

Okay, lady, but just this once, and just for you. :-)

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-09-08 22:26:36 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

OMG I LOVE RETALIATORY -2s!




God, you're pathetic. Go away, boy, the grown folks are talking.

Submitted by IntangibleHands (user info) at 2005-09-08 22:19:35 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-09-08 22:16:25 (#)
Ranking: -2

And you should only keep writing if it doesn't suck next time.




Hmmmmmm........

Submitted by strider (user info) at 2005-09-01 12:15:22 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1

more drama from this mama...

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-31 17:13:25 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

The guy I currently have a schoolgirl-esque crush on doesn't either if it helps.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-31 17:11:03 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I'm okay with that.

Submitted by Chicane (user info) at 2005-08-31 17:06:03 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

you know i don't own a beemer, right?

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-31 17:03:54 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I already told you dude, I <3 you. Totally.


Submitted by Chicane (user info) at 2005-08-31 16:54:47 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

it works though, huh.

so how do you like me now, shallow sal?

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-31 16:47:36 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I <3 you too chicane. No need to troll around here trying to get my attention.

Submitted by Chicane (user info) at 2005-08-31 16:27:45 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

she's about as shallow as a gob of phlegm on the sidewalk.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-31 16:13:29 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Ummm dude?


"And when I say I could have him back if I wanted, it's not shallowness or overconfidence speaking. I say it because I know it to be true, based on A) his overt flirtations, including a rather unexpected kiss right before I left, B) his having called me twice since the day I ran into him, and C) his sister saying "you know Josh is still into you, right?""

Didja miss that bit? It's not shallowness, it's honesty. I'm sorry if being aware of my options makes me "shallow," I guess that's just something we'll both have to learn to live with.

Submitted by Quint (user info) at 2005-08-31 15:51:41 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

"And make no mistake, boy, I could have him back if I wanted."

THAT is what makes you look shallow. Very shallow.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-31 15:28:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Wait.


I look MORE shallow because I'm NOT trying to get back with him now that he's got money? Explain.

And when I say I could have him back if I wanted, it's not shallowness or overconfidence speaking. I say it because I know it to be true, based on A) his overt flirtations, including a rather unexpected kiss right before I left, B) his having called me twice since the day I ran into him, and C) his sister saying "you know Josh is still into you, right?"

Submitted by Quint (user info) at 2005-08-31 14:58:48 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:50:28 (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 (#)
Ranking: -2

Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?

___


I'm not kicking myself over him because he has money. I'm kicking myself because I broke up with him over the fact that he had absolutley no drive, no desire to do anything but wait tables and smoke weed in his parent's basement, and now he has purpose and ambitions and goals. He was a good boyfriend, I just got sick of seeing someone with so much potential refuse to do anything with it. If it had anything to do with the money, I'd be over there right now, flirting and kissing. And make no mistake, boy, I could have him back if I wanted.


Do you ever get tired of being wrong? Maybe you should stop being such a presumptuous dick all the time, you might save face. Douchebag.

----

That just made you look even more shallow.

Submitted by Rawrg (user info) at 2005-08-31 01:58:53 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

No Comment

Submitted by randomgirl (user info) at 2005-08-30 17:18:48 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

She must be an insecure cunt. I've never really been jealous of my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends. I think sometimes he brags about them to make me jealous. "Oh. Well ALL of my ex girlfriends have been either models or playmates!"
"Great for them. I'm glad that they want to focus the rest of their lives on their looks. You must have only dated brilliant women." No one is impressed by a chick's ability to get naked and take pictures." Anyways I just realized that I'm rambling, so back to the point. She must be an insecure cunt.

Submitted by thinning_temples (user info) at 2005-08-30 06:27:55 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

>>Men, does your current squeeze inexplicably despise any other women you've dated?

My current girlriend actively hates my ex-girlfriends, and it drives me mad. My previous girlfriend felt uneasy about girls I'd dated, but also understood it was unfair.

How do I feel? I'm actually totally OK with my ex's boyfriends. I've noticed she's meticulous about keeping them from me. This applies to photographs, anecdotes, and in fact I've never met my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, even tho' I'd like to and we live in a small town.

So why are women so hostile to their boyfriend's ex's?

M best shot is as follows: women tend to cultivate and hold onto men more than men do women. An ex is by definition somebody you've been attracted to enough to go out with, and would therefore present a real danger to the relationship.

Hence the hostility.




Submitted by apollo88 (user info) at 2005-08-30 06:23:33 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

"i broke up with him becuase of his total lack of ambition......"

-2



Submitted by Flack (user info) at 2005-08-30 04:36:39 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

Oh Ashlee, your posts get me so hot! ::::::ejaculates::::::

Submitted by Merlina (user info) at 2005-08-30 04:35:19 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Submitted by hairycoo (user info) at 2005-08-30 04:29:44 (#)
Ranking: -2

maybe ur just a cunt

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

time of the month hairycoo, hon?

Submitted by Merlina (user info) at 2005-08-30 04:34:38 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

I don't hate his ex's.

I don't want to be friends with them either though. That's normal right?

Submitted by hairycoo (user info) at 2005-08-30 04:29:44 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

maybe ur just a cunt

Submitted by Phate (user info) at 2005-08-30 03:32:24 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

+2 for no reason
-4 because you look like you have down's syndrome

http://www.ubersite.com/m/38489
**Shudder**


Submitted by ProphetOne (user info) at 2005-08-29 22:47:07 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

Girls can be the nastiest of sorts when it comes to staking claim.

Go Jags! WOOO!!

Submitted by starshine (user info) at 2005-08-29 22:40:08 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

I hate my bf's ex. With a passion. It's a jealousy thing.

Submitted by Lucylou (user info) at 2005-08-29 21:14:01 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

Girls - jealous creatures. But sounds like you've got an especially psycho one there - I mean, I think most of us would admit to feeling a tad intimidated by our partner's ex at some stage.

Funny though, I've had some "currents" of exes of mine be really nice to me, we go out for coffee etc. It's only later that the ex tells me that the "current" is shit-scared and jealous of me, and bitches to him all the time. Think I'd prefer it if they're just openly nasty!

Sorry if some of that makes no sense - had a migraine yesterday and am in vacant mode...doesn't make it too fun to be at work.

Submitted by Bigmike (user info) at 2005-08-29 21:03:27 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

I stick by what I said on that other site. You know, the one over there........

Submitted by WellFedEthiopian (user info) at 2005-08-29 21:00:39 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

"(I broke up with him because of his total lack of ambition in life. Back then he lived with his parents and rode a bike to work. Now he owns a successful construction company and drives a Beemer. Yep, I'm kicking myself over that one.)"

I love how women equate ambition to driving a nice car and pulling in a hefty salary.

Submitted by Insanethemind (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:59:44 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Chicane: admit it man, you just want some of ashlees 20 year old, divorced poon!


Its so obvious

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:51:25 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I'm not lying about anything, dude. This is 100% true, raw, and uncensored.




And just for your personal peace of mind, I was married at the time I dated this guy, but my husband and I were seperated and had been for a few months.

Submitted by Chicane (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:50:14 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

you try to be a player but your problem is that you keep getting played out.

keep on husslin'.

good luck with all that whoring, ya big godammed LIAR.


Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:47:54 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I AM SO BORED.




Get me to #1 most heated, dude. I'll be eternally grateful or something.

Submitted by Insanethemind (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:47:37 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1

" we chatted, we flirted, we caught up on old times, i sucked his cock in his sweet beamer! liek omg!"





Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:46:17 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Wrong and wrong. But thanks for playing...

Submitted by Chicane (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:44:36 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

but i do know you. you're a pathological liar.

and. a. brazen. hussy.

she disliked you for those reasons.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:31:52 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I care what you think, dude, really.


So now that you've made a bunch of nasty accusations, none of which have any basis and are mostly incorrect, to someone you know very little about, do you feel better about your masculinity? I sure hope so.

Submitted by Chicane (user info) at 2005-08-29 20:22:42 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

if you're only 20 yrs old now, and was married for four years, split from your ex a year or so ago, saw the beemer dude 2 yrs ago....that makes you a stupid, lying, cheating, shallow whore. What? did you get with your "ex" when you were 12? Your mother shoulda got herself some morals and parental skills and maybe you wouldn't have turned out like her.

i don't believe you were married, i don't believe you've ever moved away from home. i do believe you portray yourself to be respectable and intelligent here on uber when away from the computer you're nothing of the sort.

you're a lazy motherfucking whorish leech.

i'm done.

now fuck off.

Submitted by knucklesnelson (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:49:19 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

you sure do get around, +2 cause i wouldnt mind a peice of that, and im an asshole!

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:48:34 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

I never divulged the details or reasons for our breakup to her. We were talking about our opinions on dating in the workplace, and I mentioned that I had once dated a fellow employee at Outback and none of the tension and akwardness you hear so much about had resulted after our breakup. That was the full extent of the information I gave her regarding me and him.


I worked with this girl in mid-June. He dumped her about three weeks ago. I only mention this because some of the replies indicate that I didn't make it clear that they aren't still together, not that it's relevant. I just don't want to hear people accusing me of being a man-theiving gold digger, because I'm none of those things.

Submitted by Off_The_Wagon (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:44:46 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2

Sounds like normal, rational female thinking to me.

Submitted by munkeypants (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:42:16 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

That's just immaturity, insecurity, and maybe she was a bit jealous of you even before that?

Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:39:54 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2

I don't see it as mistrust so much as protecting my assets."""

If your boyfriend ever cheats on you with this easy whore, your relationship is bound to fail some day. So let him be put to test. I always found it more satisfying to see my girlfriends turn down other males without me having to say a single word.

Anyway, that's how I see it. Any kind of restraints make people flee.

Submitted by CookieLass (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:25:00 EDT (#)
Ranking: -1

Ashlee, you don't think that perhaps she might dislike you because you deemed her boyfriend "not good enough" for you a few years back, and here you are waiting tables and snorting lines off the paper towel machines in the ladies' room? Meanwhile, her boyfriend has a thriving business, money to burn, and her? But he wasn't good enough for you? I think that might have alot more to do with it.


Caul - damned fucking skippy. I don't trust him any further than I can throw him with that pirhana around. All he has to do is look at her for more than 10 seconds and she's trying to climb into his lap. I don't see it as mistrust so much as protecting my assets.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:12:07 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0

Wiki! I moved back home about four months ago, actually, this is a Sebring chick. Although, I did have a little brush with a backstabbing bitch from Jax while I was up there. Email me, mami, we gots some catching up to do!


Cookie - If that were the case, we wouldn't have been getting along so well prior to her learning this, now would we? One day, we're laughing and chatting about men. She goes home that night, makes the connection, gets the confirmation from him, and comes in the next day with an ice-queen attitude. He told me that as soon as he told her we had dated, she started talking about chasing me away from working there and got all pissy at him. I have since heard from a few mutual friends that she's been like that with the female friends of every guy she's dated, so I really think it's more a jealousy/insecurity type thing than a personality clash.



Submitted by Quint (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:11:12 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 (#)
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Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?


Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:09:35 EDT (#)
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Every time she gets him on the phone, she tries to get him to threesome with her and her husband, and as a result, he's not allowed to be alone in a room with him. On the flip side, my boyfriend has some reservations about my best male friend and his outlook on relationships, so I'm not allowed to be alone in a room with him. It isn't just women who behave that way. """

Nice relationship of trust you got there.

Submitted by CookieLass (user info) at 2005-08-29 19:04:12 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Sphagnum (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:18:54 (#)
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I really don't want to get involved here... but I'm bored so I will anyway.

Being a single white female aged 8 to 80, I believe that women only behave this way towards someone they feel threatened by. And when I say threatened by, I mean slutty. And when I say slutty, I mean willstopatnothingtostealyourboyfriend. And when I say that really long word I just said, I mean "disease infested whorebag."

You must fit into this category somehow.... I suggest you change your demeanour and image.. or kill yourself, they'll probably both work, with the second one being infinately more effective.

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The only time I don't want my boyfriend hanging out with a girl I don't know well is when I know she's the type who doesn't respect the fact that he's in a relationship. His closest friend's wife is one of those people. Every time she gets him on the phone, she tries to get him to threesome with her and her husband, and as a result, he's not allowed to be alone in a room with him. On the flip side, my boyfriend has some reservations about my best male friend and his outlook on relationships, so I'm not allowed to be alone in a room with him. It isn't just women who behave that way.

I'm sure she hates you for who you are, not the fact that you once fucked her boyfriend.

Submitted by WiKi (user info) at 2005-08-29 18:46:12 EDT (#)
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PS - A lot of my friends got 2 hotel rooms out at the beaches this weekend for the birthday of my baby's father.. (*snort*)

One of my guy friends ended up passing out on the beach, only to wake up to a few bums going through his pockets.. and then one of them kicked him in the head.

Moral of the story? Don't get drunk and pass out on the beach. You'll end up with a boot in your eye. (Or a torn-all-to-hell sneaker.. or sock.. or.. foot..)

Submitted by WiKi (user info) at 2005-08-29 18:42:13 EDT (#)
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I guess I should have told you a long time ago that Jacksonville girls are Bitches. With a capital 'B'.

You have to choose your friends wisely. They'll stab you in the back in a heartbeat. I learned that the hard way quite a few times.

In related news, I know a girl named Anna. But she's a friggin sweetheart. FRIGGIN, I say.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 18:42:12 EDT (#)
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That's ridiculous dude. You think I was holding him back, huh? During that month that we dated? Man, it's funny to see someone be so amazingly wrong about something... you don't know anything about him or our relationship, why do you assume you do?

And she wasn't suspicious of me, and had no reason to beleive that I wanted her man. I didn't even know the guy still lived here until Saturday.


A lonely road, you think? I've got my options. I'm perfectly ok on the romantic front, but thanks for your concern.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 18:35:23 EDT (#)
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Yep.






I mentioned his success because I found it ironic that someone whose most pressing goal was to be home in time for the Chapelle Show would be running a successful company less than two years later. It wasn't the money I had in mind when I wrote that, itwas the ambition and self-motivation required to accomplish something like that. Generally speaking,that sort of change doesn't happen overnight. I simply found the contrast worthy of note.

Submitted by Sphagnum (user info) at 2005-08-29 18:27:48 EDT (#)
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Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 17:17:25 (#)
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The total lack of intelligent thought and reading comprehension abilities displayed in some of the comments makes my head hurt.

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Is that because your limited intellect doesn't allow you to understand them?

Get off your fucking high-horse will you. The only reason that guy moved on is because he ditched you. You were obviously holding him back.... For fuck's sake, am I the only one who can see this??

Also, if I was that chick, I would be suspicious of you too. You are obviously a selfish whore who wouldn't think twice about stealing her Man from her.

I pity you.......

Nothing but a lonely road ahead....


Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 17:59:14 EDT (#)
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Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 17:17:25 (#)
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The total lack of intelligent thought and reading comprehension abilities displayed in some of the comments makes my head hurt.
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here you go again...you're so fucking smart aren't you?

Submitted by Orgasmatron (user info) at 2005-08-29 17:41:31 EDT (#)
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If that's true, then why mention the BMW at all, or his post-breakup success?

Whatever.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 17:17:25 EDT (#)
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The total lack of intelligent thought and reading comprehension abilities displayed in some of the comments makes my head hurt.


This post wasn't about Beemer boy, our relationship, or his money. It was about the total change in attitude on the part of his then-girlfriend based on nothing more than the fact that we dated, breifly, almost two years ago. If it WAS about him and/or his money, let me take this time to once again reiterate that I'm not after his money. I know full well I could have him back if I wanted, and I choose not to persue it for a myriad of reasons. I NEVER DID AND STILL DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE MONEY.




Submitted by joedaddy (user info) at 2005-08-29 16:41:02 EDT (#)
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Shit happens at the bottom of the food chain

Submitted by fluff (user info) at 2005-08-29 16:27:34 EDT (#)
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Ach comeon.

That doesn't sound realistic. And even if it was. Why would your relationship problems interest me? No catch in this story. sory.

Submitted by userpete86 (user info) at 2005-08-29 16:06:43 EDT (#)
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I, personally, stopped reading after the second paragraph. I scanned the third and decided I didn't like your opinions.

Then I read adam and caulin's comments and decided that I like them.

My girlfriend started going out with me during summer, when my work was on strike, and before my dad had the escrow done on his house. At 18, I lived in a hotel with my dad, had no job, didn't go to school and she stuck by me. Fucking angel.

That last paragraph was meant to show you how a caring individual can look past things like cars, possessions, companies, mistakes and money.

Thanks.

Submitted by clit_commander (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:50:45 EDT (#)
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Women are crazy fucking bitches, period. This is more certain than death and taxes combined.

Submitted by MyNameIsTim (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:47:54 EDT (#)
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no, that was shenagains

Submitted by HippoRapist (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:45:40 EDT (#)
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i would hate you regardless of my girlfriend's opinion...dumb bitch.

Submitted by sideshow (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:42:27 EDT (#)
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Submitted by William_Q_Percy (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:31:03 (#)
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All my Exes live in Texas.
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Q, you crack me up. How is that possible?

Submitted by sideshow (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:41:57 EDT (#)
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Submitted by MyNameIsTim (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:07:14 (#)
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wow.

did you really need to make a post about this? i can answer it in two minutes, and you won't need to argue.

how does it feel kissing someone knowing that someone else's genitals were in his/her mouth? think about that, and then meet that person. how would you feel? angry, bitter, mean, bitchy, etc. ashlee -like.

done.

also, for the record, my headlights got stolen friday night. i left my house at 930, cops say they were stolen at 10-1030. alarm went off, neighbors saw them, called the police, who didn't get there in time.

they were likely watching, waiting for me to leave.

cops say they won't catch them until someone catches them in the act and stops them. thats the same thing they said last time.

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Didn't you shit kick those fuckers last week?

Submitted by Orgasmatron (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:37:15 EDT (#)
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Speaking of "Hatred Amongst Females," take a look back at a recent offering of yours: http://www.ubersite.com/m/73007

"Said crew consisted of one really hot guy and one slightly chunky, really slutty looking bitch. Honestly, construction or no, who shows up to work in bootie shorts and a tube top?

A little aside here, a few days into the job, I had plans to go to lunch with a friend. When I walked out to my car, Slutty Bitch, who seemed to be on a perpetual break, was just standing in front of it, looking at me. I made some smartass comment, because that's just the sort of thing I'm liable to do, and she sort of rolled her eyes and snorted at me. From then on, she seemed to look down her nose whenever I was around, like she was better than me or something. Excuse me, ho, but last time I checked, YOU are here working for ME. Get over yourself."


This, if you recall, sat wonderfully with me at the time. But now you've got a poll about women who pre/misjudge other women and/or automatically hate them for a particular reason?
At least there *was* a reason in this workplace situation of yours...

AMF.

Submitted by thecaes (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:35:35 EDT (#)
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Submitted by MyNameIsTim (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:24:15 (#)
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one day, the guy, who i was previously amicable with, comes up to me and says, "how does it feel kissing her knowing that my dick has been in her mouth?"
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Holy shit. Did you then ask him how it feels to have his teeth knocked down his throat? What a fucking ass.

Submitted by satchel (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:33:01 EDT (#)
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Submitted by ParlorTrick (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:25:16 (#)
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Jealously is a sign of personal weakness.


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Agreed. But I think it applies to men as well as women in many cases. Personally, I've met three of my current girlfriend's exes, and have liked/been friendly with every single one.

In prior relationships, especially where I felt that the relationship was shaky to begin with, I felt rather more threatened by their exes.


Submitted by MyNameIsTim (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:25:16 EDT (#)
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oops, forgot to rate. sorry.

Submitted by ParlorTrick (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:25:16 EDT (#)
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Jealously is a sign of personal weakness. I have no problem with my significant other being friends with other woman. I assume if a man is 'good enough for me' than the women he chooses to befriend (past or present) are likely good people too. My self confidence does not allow me to be threatened by woman I don't know. My relationships are purely 100% voluntary.

However, if some chick were overtly pursuing my man romantically, knowing he was in a relationship, I would find her less than....classy, but would trust my man to handle the situation appropriately, and not give her a second thought.


Submitted by MyNameIsTim (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:24:15 EDT (#)
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one time, i was dating this girl...i had started dating her about a month after she brke up with her last bf, who had dated her for about a year. (she was one of those relationship-sluts)

one day, the guy, who i was previously amicable with, comes up to me and says, "how does it feel kissing her knowing that my dick has been in her mouth?"

it did not feel good at all, and that feeling has continued through all of my successive girlfriends' exes.

thats how i think

Submitted by TheSpook (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:23:55 EDT (#)
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Jesus fucking christ you're worthless.

Submitted by Sphagnum (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:18:54 EDT (#)
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I really don't want to get involved here... but I'm bored so I will anyway.

Being a single white female aged 8 to 80, I believe that women only behave this way towards someone they feel threatened by. And when I say threatened by, I mean slutty. And when I say slutty, I mean willstopatnothingtostealyourboyfriend. And when I say that really long word I just said, I mean "disease infested whorebag."

You must fit into this category somehow.... I suggest you change your demeanour and image.. or kill yourself, they'll probably both work, with the second one being infinately more effective.



Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:17:30 EDT (#)
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What have I said that implies that I'm trying to be wise and reasoable?"""

Whenever someone dares to say something negative about you, you claim to be smarter and more mature than everyone else (see MyNameIsTim's latest post). Then you usually call them pathetic, idiots or stalkers. Or even losers, which is quite ironic coming from a puerile drug addict with a failed early adulthood who thinks she's got it all figured out.

I'm out of here. I wouldn't want to "stalk" you.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:10:08 EDT (#)
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Sorry bout your luck dude.



And no, I wouldn't feel angry or bitter or any of that. I was and still am friends with two of my ex-husband's ex girlfriends, and generally get along fine with ex-girlfriends of the guys I date. That's WHY I asked the question - the reaction simply doesn't make sense to me.

Submitted by JonnyX (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:10:05 EDT (#)
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Submitted by indoninja (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:07:08 (#)
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Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:50:28 (#)
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Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 (#)
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Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?

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I'm not kicking myself over him because he has money. I'm kicking myself because I broke up with him over the fact that he had absolutley no drive, no desire to do anything but wait tables and smoke weed in his parent's basement,
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Don't you wait tables, smoke weed and do coke? So your real problem is him living in his parents basement? Maybe if somebody was paying him alimony he could move out.

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PWNED

Submitted by MyNameIsTim (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:07:14 EDT (#)
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wow.

did you really need to make a post about this? i can answer it in two minutes, and you won't need to argue.

how does it feel kissing someone knowing that someone else's genitals were in his/her mouth? think about that, and then meet that person. how would you feel? angry, bitter, mean, bitchy, etc. ashlee -like.

done.

also, for the record, my headlights got stolen friday night. i left my house at 930, cops say they were stolen at 10-1030. alarm went off, neighbors saw them, called the police, who didn't get there in time.

they were likely watching, waiting for me to leave.

cops say they won't catch them until someone catches them in the act and stops them. thats the same thing they said last time.

Submitted by thecaes (user info) at 2005-08-29 15:06:20 EDT (#)
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Submitted by FilthyAssistant (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:37:54 (#)
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I think the replies on this post prove that men can be just as bitchy, vindictive and irrational as women.
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Yes, but in a macho way.

Actually Filthy, I don't agree (although men can surely be bitches). Henry Rollins, a very wise man, once said something like: "With men, fighting is like a prelude to friendship. If two men fight they'll be buying beers for each other within the hour. If a woman gets into a fight, she'll hang the other girl's ovaries from her rearview mirror."

Hell hath no fury.

Submitted by jack11058 (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:56:25 EDT (#)
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i dunno, for the same reason my girl gets mad at me for something i did in her dreams?

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:50:00 EDT (#)
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How am I doing that, Caul? What have I said that implies that I'm trying to be wise and reasoable? I just want to hear other people's experience in this type of situation. Really. That's all. I promise.


And yeah, I did think about doing that, out of a moment of anger and bitterness led to by a lot of bullshit even after our divorce. The difference? I thought about fucking with someone who personally wronged me for about five minutes and then got over it. I don't follow him around and pick a fight with him every chance I get.

Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:48:19 EDT (#)
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Also, please stop calling stalkers the people who try to get something through your thick permeable immature skull.

You've been doing that forever.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:41:57 EDT (#)
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Agreed.



Prrof - I'm not really upset about this... slightly annoyed that these ree-rees are stalking me and nitpicking everything I say, and totally disregarding the entire post because of one little comment in parenthases... but mostly I'm just bored and wondering if I can get them to argue me onto most heated. It's been awhile.

Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:40:21 EDT (#)
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When I hate people, I avoid them."""

Is that why you IMed me out of nowhere to ask me if it'd be funny to post your ex-husband phone number on the Uberboard?

I don't hate you. I just dislike how you're trying to potray yourself as wise and reasonable when you clearly are juvenile.

Submitted by FilthyAssistant (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:37:54 EDT (#)
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I think the replies on this post prove that men can be just as bitchy, vindictive and irrational as women.



Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:37:18 EDT (#)
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Submitted by PokeyPecker (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:31:34 (#)
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(I broke up with him because of his total lack of ambition in life. Back then he lived with his parents and rode a bike to work. Now he owns a successful construction company and drives a Beemer. Yep, I'm kicking myself over that one.)
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Everytime I read something by you, I just want to slit my wrists.

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Follow your heart, dude.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:36:31 EDT (#)
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...because some other chick went into bitch mode upon finding out that I had a brief relationship with her boyfriend? Explain.


Let me make it clear for those who lack reading comprehension. I am happy for this guy, he's done great for himself and I'm proud of him. I'm more than aware that I fucked up with a really sweet guy because I made a bad decision. The decision wasn't based on his money or where he was in life, it was based on him telling me that he was gonna be at that place in life for the rest of it and my inablity to commit myself to a relationship with a guy who wanted to live like a teenager forever, when I had, and still have, dreams and goals and desires to get where I want to be in life (read: not where I am now.)

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN HIS MONEY. IF I WAS I WOULD BE FUCKING HIM ON THE HOOD OF THAT BMW RIGHT NOW.

Submitted by PokeyPecker (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:36:07 EDT (#)
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And I'll bet you're a lousy waitress, on top of it all.

Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:35:33 EDT (#)
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Submitted by MANICMOTHER (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:30:01 (#)
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Ashlee you make me ashamed to be female.

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Take notes from this woman

Submitted by PokeyPecker (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:31:34 EDT (#)
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(I broke up with him because of his total lack of ambition in life. Back then he lived with his parents and rode a bike to work. Now he owns a successful construction company and drives a Beemer. Yep, I'm kicking myself over that one.)
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Everytime I read something by you, I just want to slit my wrists.

Submitted by proofofpurchase (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:30:41 EDT (#)
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The replies keep getting better and better here, someone sounds defensive.

Your buttons are easily pushed, sweetie, that's all it is.

Good for you to better yourself - you get a +2 now





























SHUT UP!



















I mean that in the nicest way possible.

Submitted by MANICMOTHER (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:30:01 EDT (#)
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Ashlee you make me ashamed to be female.

Submitted by Unabonger (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:26:46 EDT (#)
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I don't know. Girls are fucking stupid when it comes to that shit.

One of my best friends is now seeing a girl who I used to date ages ago. She dated him back in highschool, then dated me for about 2 years. Then all three of us dated around. Then she started dating him again 3 years ago. They broke up about a year ago and I dated her for about 2 weeks (read as fucked her for about 2 weeks) and now she's back with him and probably going to marry him. We're all three great friends and hung out regularly before I moved away.

Now that I think about it, I've dated most of my friend's current girlfriends. It's not uncomfortable to me and I don't think it's uncomfortable to them. Just how it happens. I don't even think about it.

You never see that with women...at least I haven't.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:24:32 EDT (#)
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Adam, we all make mistakes, I'm more than willing to own up to mine. Yeah, I've fucked up a lot in the past five years. Getting married when I was still a child, trying for four years to save a marriage that wasn't going to work,getting involved with drugs, blowing off college, allowing myself to become a selfish, vapid bitch... that's just the tip of the iceberg. However, I am doing everything I can to make ammends for those mistakes, to make things right with the people I've hurt, and to become the person I wanted to be before I let all these things happen. I never claimed to be perfect, there goes another one of your incorrect assumptions. But I do have the desire to become a better person, and to acheive the goals that I lost sight of during all the drama.

You have this burning hatred for me, right? When I hate people, I avoid them. I don't follow them around nitpicking everything they say or do. I don't listen to them talk or read what they've written, and then pick out one irrelevant sentnce to lash out at them about. Know why? BECAUSE I'M NOT IN FUCKING GRADE SCHOOL.


Ninja - I explained, in detail, what problems I had with the guy. It was never about what he did, it was about the fact that he had no interest in doing anything else. At all. And FYI, I haven't seen one red cent of alimony, never even expected to. I threw that into the petition based on legal advice, it was $75 a week for six months, and he's not paying it anyway, so get the fuck over it ok?







This post is not about me, my life, my past relationships. It's not about what happened between me and this guy. I just want to know what's up with the jealousy thing. Anyone who wants to make digs at me based on little snatches of this post? Any conclusions you're drawing about me based on it are wrong. Get over it.

Submitted by proofofpurchase (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:23:05 EDT (#)
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Submitted by ellsmall (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:08:36 (#)
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Well are you hotter than Anna? Chicks really seem to hate it if the ex is hotter than they are, maybe because thay think the guy "settled" for them after getting dumped by someone more attractive.
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Nail hit on the head here, that is why I get along with my guy's ex. If she were better-looking than me I am sure I would hate her guts but because of this paradigm, I really don't give a rat's ass.

Submitted by djgray (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:15:28 EDT (#)
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That is quite peculiar. None of my exes have ever been crazy over any of my previous exes before them. Maybe it has something to do with either the women I have been dating or possibly the geography. Because as we all know attitudes and lifestyles vary greatly in different parts of the country, state, city, world.

Submitted by ellsmall (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:08:36 EDT (#)
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Well are you hotter than Anna? Chicks really seem to hate it if the ex is hotter than they are, maybe because thay think the guy "settled" for them after getting dumped by someone more attractive.

Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:08:16 EDT (#)
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You really proved me wrong by attacking me and then making grandoise lies about all the successful wonderful men that are all pawing for attention by you, but are of course below standard.

Lets make a list

You recently turned 20 or 21 and already a divorcee, good start, you must be a REAL winner
I've seen pictures, and I'm sure others will agree, you're no catch, unless I was fishing for dogfish
There was the stories of you in Orlando, what fine character you have, and an inability to get laid
You live with your mom
You always sound like a bitch
You recently had a job waiting tables, woo woo go sucessful career path

Wow, I am wrong about you, you really are perfect and wonderful in every way

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:08:01 EDT (#)
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I didn't look down on him for the actions themselves, Nitty. Hell, I worked at the same place as he did, it's how we met. What bothered me was that he was 23 and was content living that way. I want more out of life than weed and waitressing, and I'm working to get it. He, at the time, had every intention of living that way for as long as he could get away with it. It really upset me to see someone I cared about, who could obviously go so far in life, just refuse to aknowledge that he could. I hated that he had the intelligence and ability, but acted like he had neither.

Submitted by indoninja (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:07:08 EDT (#)
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Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:50:28 (#)
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Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 (#)
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Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?

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I'm not kicking myself over him because he has money. I'm kicking myself because I broke up with him over the fact that he had absolutley no drive, no desire to do anything but wait tables and smoke weed in his parent's basement,
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Don't you wait tables, smoke weed and do coke? So your real problem is him living in his parents basement? Maybe if somebody was paying him alimony he could move out.

Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 14:05:04 EDT (#)
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I think Adam is being presomptuous because of this: http://www.ubersite.com/m/69071
Well in my case, it is.

Submitted by nitty34 (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:58:29 EDT (#)
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Playing Devil's Advocate here:

I'm kicking myself because I broke up with him over the fact that he had absolutley no drive, no desire to do anything but wait tables and smoke weed in his parent's basement

I'm pretty sure in the last few days you've said that a) you've smoked weed for 5 years and done coke for 2 and b) you're a waitress.

Why did you look down on him for it?

Submitted by forensicgirl3 (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:56:52 EDT (#)
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Because some women (woefully a large amount) are retarded that way.



Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:55:42 EDT (#)
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Furthermore, if it WAS about money, I wouldn't be kicking myself over him, considering that during the various seperations from my husband, I have been out with a doctor, a car-lot owner, a few spoiled rich boys, a big-time dealer or two, and a handful of other wealthy guys who would have been more than willing to keep me in new clothes and a nice car, and have refused to continue seeing them every time.

Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:50:28 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 (#)
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Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?

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I'm not kicking myself over him because he has money. I'm kicking myself because I broke up with him over the fact that he had absolutley no drive, no desire to do anything but wait tables and smoke weed in his parent's basement, and now he has purpose and ambitions and goals. He was a good boyfriend, I just got sick of seeing someone with so much potential refuse to do anything with it. If it had anything to do with the money, I'd be over there right now, flirting and kissing. And make no mistake, boy, I could have him back if I wanted.


Do you ever get tired of being wrong? Maybe you should stop being such a presumptuous dick all the time, you might save face. Douchebag.

Submitted by proofofpurchase (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:50:17 EDT (#)
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As a woman I would like to answer all of you burning questions with....

Yes and because I can.

Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:44:31 EDT (#)
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I wouldn't hate you because my girlfriend would tell me to, I'd hate you because you're appealed by money and cars.

Submitted by nitty34 (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:43:57 EDT (#)
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I'm gonna have to tally my vote up beside Adam's here.



Submitted by Sphagnum (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:43:25 EDT (#)
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Being an intelligent female, I choose to reserve my opinion on this subject.

Submitted by miss_tila (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:38:16 EDT (#)
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Women are jealous bitches.

Signed: Jelous bitch

Submitted by c1ndy (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:36:02 EDT (#)
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I have no idea, I don't understand anybody.

Submitted by William_Q_Percy (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:31:03 EDT (#)
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All my Exes live in Texas.

Submitted by RyuFu (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:26:26 EDT (#)
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Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 (#)
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Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?
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That and this is borderline-blog. But I'm feeling generous this minute.

Submitted by Circe (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:26:03 EDT (#)
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I hate pretty much fucking everybody.

If they've ever dated my husband, I also pity them for not being good enough to keep him.

I don't understand women, though.

Submitted by Jeanneee (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:25:52 EDT (#)
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All women are insane bitches. I thought this had been established long ago.

Submitted by WhatTheHell (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:23:55 EDT (#)
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YOU can see it too Baddassmofo..

Wanna?

Huh?


Do ya??

Submitted by badassmofo (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:22:16 EDT (#)
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Submitted by WhatTheHell (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:18:14 (#)
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If I possesed a cunt I would answer your question...

Alas I do not, I have a rather large and veiney penis... wanna see it?

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Shenanigans!!

Submitted by Adamdidit2u (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:21:57 EDT (#)
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Because you only kicked yourself over the guy because now he has money, maybe the uberpoll should have been how shallow are women?

Submitted by WhatTheHell (user info) at 2005-08-29 13:18:14 EDT (#)
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If I possesed a cunt I would answer your question...

Alas I do not, I have a rather large and veiney penis... wanna see it?


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