Betrayal?! (370 hits)
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Submitted by <ejryuu.at.gmail.com> (View user info) at 2006-07-19 13:03:15 EDT
What does it feel like? It feels like you've been forcefully fed a pail of rocks, tied up, then punched in the stomach until those stones have been ground into a fine dust. It feels like one was on their hands and knees behind you and the other pushed you backwards. Both of them stand up, laugh at you, then walk away. It's going in for minor surgery, only to wake up prematurely from the anesthesia and find the doctor and nurse dining on your heart.
It sucks.
I'm not talking about infidelity, but infriendelity.
When one of your best friends gets together with your most recent ex-girlfriend that you're still not completely over without any kind of "consent" being asked for.
The background - He flew up to visit us in February. My girlfriend and I were in the process of her breaking up, with her planning on moving out at the beginning of March. We were both supposed to fly down to his neck of the woods in June for his twenty-first birthday. I got caught up in my own life and there wasn't much talk of the visit, but my ex managed to fly down. She had a significant other at the time, but ended up fooling around with him anyway.
My friend treated it as nothing. An accident. Whoops, she tripped, fell and landed on my dick. But it didn't mean anything. But I saw the look in his eyes when he was visiting our humble abode. His eyes shifted back and forth, and behind the guise of friendship, I read "I'd rail her the second you turned your back." Four months later, my nagging, paranoid suspicions were confirmed. Premeditated boning makes it even worse.
This isn't about the specific friend or the actual ex. This is about what is right and wrong between friends. My "pain" is already gone, so feel free to skip the "get the fuck over it" spiel. How long should a friend wait? Does he need to have any actual feelings for the girl or is it more acceptable if it's a random hookup?
Personally, I don't think I could do anything with a girl that I knew had once been with any friend of mine without at least asking him. Women aren't property (*snicker*) but it's just common courtesey, something akin to asking your girlfriend's father for his consent of you asking to marry her.
But I guess not everyone is that way, no matter how good a friendship you have.
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Submitted by Paddles (user info) at 2006-07-19 23:43:01 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
+1 for the Guilty Conscience reference.
+1 for sympathy.
Submitted by JonnyX (user info) at 2006-07-19 15:34:44 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Send your friend an empty bottle of Zithromax and tell him that he needs to get it refilled.
Submitted by Spacegrass (user info) at 2006-07-19 15:24:37 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
Whoops, she tripped, fell and landed on my dick.
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I always wanted that to happen to me. I even set up a trip wire in the women's locker room at the gym, disguised myself as the floor, and hoped for the best. No deal. Man there's a lot of ugly women at the gym. It's nothing like they make it seem in pornos.
Submitted by BobLobla (user info) at 2006-07-19 14:16:43 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
fuck his mom...
in the ass
Submitted by GetNakeddd (user info) at 2006-07-19 13:24:29 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
+2 because I've gone through the same shit
Though my friend waited a record 6 hours
-1 because you left out the sweet revenge part
(I made her cry and feel horrible about her self, good enough for me)
Submitted by ubetidid (user info) at 2006-07-19 13:08:07 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
i'm sorry to have to tell you this but...
they were fucking back in February.
behind your back.
when he was visiting you.
here's your plan.
wait till HE has a new girlfriend.
then you fuck her.
it will all work out in the end.